{"id":3493,"date":"2023-07-19T13:14:11","date_gmt":"2023-07-19T11:14:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/?p=3493"},"modified":"2023-08-04T16:25:44","modified_gmt":"2023-08-04T14:25:44","slug":"musu-lauliba-jau-iesakas-ka-viena-liela-krize","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/musu-lauliba-jau-iesakas-ka-viena-liela-krize\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u016bsu laul\u012bba jau ies\u0101k\u0101s k\u0101 viena liela kr\u012bze"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-bg-parallax\" data-bg-align=\"center center\" data-direction=\"up\" data-mute=\"false\" data-opacity=\"100\" data-velocity=\"-0.2\" data-mobile-enabled=\"false\" data-break_parents=\"0\" data-bg-image=\"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Nuls-Laufmanis-Inguna-Laufmane-lauliba-1800.jpg\" data-bg-repeat=\"false\" ><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container fusion-parallax-up nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-sizes-top:0px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:0px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:200px;--awb-padding-bottom:80px;--awb-background-image:url(&quot;https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/Nuls-Laufmanis-Inguna-Laufmane-lauliba-1800.jpg&quot;);--awb-background-size:cover;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:calc( 1170px + 0px );margin-left: calc(-0px \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-0px \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-padding-right:11%;--awb-padding-left:11%;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:0px;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:0px;--awb-spacing-left-medium:0px;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:0px;--awb-spacing-left-small:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><h2 style=\"text-align: center; color: #fff;\">M\u016aSU LAUL\u012aBA JAU IES\u0100K\u0100S K\u0100 VIENA LIELA KR\u012aZE<\/h2>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:40px;width:100%;max-width:200px;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#f6861f;border-color:#f6861f;border-top-width:3px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p style=\"text-align: center; font-size: 24px; color: #fff; font-weight: 300;\">Laul\u012bbas pieredz\u0113 dal\u0101s Ing\u016bna un Nils Laufma\u0146i<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-background-position:left top;--awb-border-sizes-top:0px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:0px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:35px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1216.8px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:66.666666666667%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:2.88%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:2.88%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><h5><strong>\u0160\u012b b\u016bs saruna ar Nilu un Ing\u016bnu Laufma\u0146iem vi\u0146u Ventspils nam\u0101, kur p\u0113d\u0113jos laul\u012bbas gadus nu audzinot \u010detrus b\u0113rnus, paral\u0113li abi plecu pie pleca str\u0101d\u0101 ar\u012b viesm\u012bl\u012bbas biznes\u0101 un uztur &#8220;Cozy apartments Magnolia&#8221;. Ing\u016bna par abu komunik\u0101ciju \u0161odien saka, ka nu t\u0101 ir nep\u0101rtraukta un fantastiska, lai ar\u012b attiec\u012bbu s\u0101kum\u0101 abi teju netika gal\u0101 ar blo\u0137\u0113t\u0101m emocij\u0101m, nesp\u0113ju run\u0101t un iek\u0161\u0101 urdo\u0161o milz\u012bgo nemieru. K\u0101p\u0113c laul\u012bbas s\u0101kum\u0101 bija bailes? Vai t\u0101 bija z\u012bme, ka vi\u0146\u0161 nav \u012bstais? <\/strong><strong>Sarun\u0101jas Rihards un Viktorija Kostigovi.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-video fusion-youtube\" style=\"--awb-max-width:800px;--awb-max-height:450px;--awb-align-self:center;--awb-width:100%;\"><div class=\"video-shortcode\"><div class=\"fluid-width-video-wrapper\" style=\"padding-top:56.25%;\" ><iframe title=\"YouTube video player 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/1j9nvSb2j2U?wmode=transparent&autoplay=0&amp;rel=0\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" allowfullscreen allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\">\n<h3>Rihards: M\u016bsu sarunas tematik\u0101 ir uzsvars uz \u0161o ne tik labo v\u0101rdu &#8220;kr\u012bze&#8221; un tam blakus tas labais &#8211; &#8220;izie\u0161ana no t\u0101s&#8221;, t\u0101p\u0113c ieskic\u0113jiet jau pa\u0161\u0101 s\u0101kum\u0101 savu st\u0101stu, kas bija t\u0101 ieleja, kurai n\u0101c\u0101s iziet cauri jau laul\u012bbas s\u0101kum\u0101?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> M\u016bsu laul\u012bba jau ies\u0101k\u0101s k\u0101 vien liela kr\u012bze. Tu visp\u0101r nevari st\u0101d\u012bties priek\u0161\u0101, ka tu apprecies un tu b\u016bsi t\u0101d\u0101 kr\u012bz\u0113, film\u0101s ta\u010du r\u0101da un ar\u012b apk\u0101rt redzam p\u0101rus, kas ir tik laim\u012bgi, ar roz\u0101 brill\u0113m, kur viss ir tik for\u0161i, bet te \u2013 es apprecos un dom\u0101ju \u2013 kas notiek? Tas bija da\u017e\u0101d\u0101s liet\u0101s. Pirm\u0101 kr\u012bze jau bija draudz\u012bbas laik\u0101. Tas mums bija \u013coti sare\u017e\u0123\u012bts. Pirms m\u0113s s\u0101k\u0101m draudz\u0113ties, atceros, ka teicu \u2013 <em>\u201car \u0161ito es nekad neprec\u0113\u0161os\u201d!<\/em> Tom\u0113r, kad t\u0101 draudz\u012bba att\u012bst\u012bj\u0101s, bija lielais jaut\u0101jums, k\u0101 tad es t\u0101 eju pret sevi un turpinu ko veidot? Taj\u0101 laik\u0101 sajutu Nilu k\u0101 lielu pretpolu, jo man v\u012brie\u0161u pasaule nebija saprotama. Man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 mani nav audzin\u0101jis t\u0113tis un man nav bijis piem\u0113rs tam, ko noz\u012bm\u0113 t\u0113vs un v\u012brietis. Visur man bija k\u0101 piem\u0113ri tikai sievietes un t\u0101d\u0113\u013c es nekad nejutos br\u012bva ar pui\u0161iem. T\u0101p\u0113c bija liela barjera, kas man bija j\u0101p\u0101rvar, lai es sp\u0113tu atv\u0113rties Nilam. T\u0101p\u0113c viena no pirmaj\u0101m lielaj\u0101m kr\u012bz\u0113m man\u012b pa\u0161\u0101 bija iek\u0161\u0101 eso\u0161ais lielais nemiers. Man bija bail k\u013c\u016bd\u012bties.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Bet tas bija pirms k\u0101z\u0101m?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> J\u0101, bet pat apprecoties man bija nemiers un lielas bailes, ka tikai tas nav nepareizais l\u0113mums. Mums ar\u012b draudz\u0113 vienm\u0113r ir m\u0101c\u012bts, ka laul\u012bba ir otrais svar\u012bg\u0101kais l\u0113mums aiz J\u0113zus Kristus pie\u0146em\u0161anas. Lik\u0101s, ka, ja man\u012b ir t\u0101ds nemiers, tad visdr\u012bz\u0101kais tas nav no Dieva. Tom\u0113r tad j\u0101s\u0101k analiz\u0113t, vai tas ir nemiers, kur Dievs tevi br\u012bdina vai ar\u012b ka tev ir milzum daudz kompleksi un ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i bail no laul\u012bb\u0101m. Bija \u013coti gr\u016bti b\u016bt attiec\u012bb\u0101s ar otru ar \u0161\u0101du nemieru par to, uz kurieni m\u0113s ejam un ko dar\u0101m.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Interesanti, vai Tu Nil ar\u012b juti \u0161\u012bs Ing\u016bnas bailes?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> Bailes bija vienpus\u0113jas. Man pa\u0161am viss bija skaidrs un es \u0161o l\u0113mumu biju jau pie\u0146\u0113mis savlaic\u012bgi un sapratis, ka es gribu b\u016bt ar Ing\u016bnu kop\u0101 un esmu gatavs iet l\u012bdz galam. Es esmu p\u0113c dz\u012bves uztveres gargabalnieks, man pat\u012bk skriet garus gabalus un dz\u012bv\u0113 ar\u012b l\u0113mumus pie\u0146emt ilgtermi\u0146\u0101 skatoties. T\u0101p\u0113c centos skat\u012bties p\u0101ri tai konkr\u0113tai situ\u0101cijai un redz\u0113t, kurp ejam.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Laul\u012bba tie\u0161\u0101m ir otrs svar\u012bg\u0101kais l\u0113mums dz\u012bv\u0113 un to pie\u0146emot, es skat\u012bjos, uz ko tad eju. Apzin\u0101jos, ka neb\u016bs viegli, man nebija roz\u0101 brilles un viltus il\u016bzijas. Zin\u0101ju, ka b\u016bs p\u0101rbaud\u012bjumi un ka tie b\u016bs, visticam\u0101k, no pa\u0161a s\u0101kuma. Tom\u0113r es tur\u0113ju savu kursu un centos Ing\u016bnu taj\u0101 atbalst\u012bt, iedro\u0161inot un sakot, ka, ja Dievs m\u016bs ir savedis kop\u0101, tad kaut k\u0101ds m\u0113r\u0137is tam visam ir.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> Par Nilu run\u0101jot, j\u0101, vi\u0146\u0161 ir cilv\u0113ks, kur\u0161 nevad\u0101s p\u0113c emocij\u0101m. Vi\u0146\u0161 pie\u0146em l\u0113mumu un r\u012bkojas. Tas mani ar\u012b laikam notur\u0113ja, redz\u0113t vi\u0146u tik past\u0101v\u012bgu un k\u0101 cietu klinti, kas nemain\u0101s un nesv\u0101rst\u0101s. Es gan to dar\u012bju, vienu dienu man bija \u2013 j\u0101, otru dienu \u2013 n\u0113. <strong>N\u0101kam\u0101 kr\u012bze bija par m\u016bsu komunik\u0101ciju.<\/strong> T\u0101 mums laul\u012bbas s\u0101kum\u0101 bija lielais klup\u0161anas akmens, turpret\u012b \u0161obr\u012bd t\u0101 ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i fantastiska. Man komunik\u0101cija bija \u013coti svar\u012bga, biju pieradusi visu vienm\u0113r izrun\u0101t. Atceros, v\u012brs atbrauca no darba pirmaj\u0101 laul\u012bbas m\u0113nes\u012b. Es vi\u0146am pras\u012bju, nu, k\u0101 g\u0101ja darb\u0101? Labi. Un es t\u0101 \u2013 tas ir viss?! Lik\u0101s, ar ko esmu apprec\u0113jusies?! Man grib\u0113j\u0101s parun\u0101t, pap\u013c\u0101p\u0101t. Ar laiku Nils apjauta, cik man tas ir svar\u012bgi. Bet es, \u0161\u0137iet, pirmo laul\u012bbas gadu, katru dienu l\u016bdzu Dievu par to, lai m\u0113s saprotamies. V\u012bram s\u0101kum\u0101 bija blo\u0137\u0113tas emocijas. Bet tad vien\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b vi\u0146\u0161 s\u0101ka run\u0101t un nu jau b\u016bs 11 gadi laul\u012bb\u0101, un \u0161obr\u012bd m\u0113s patie\u0161\u0101m run\u0101jam un dar\u0101m to daudz!<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: \u0160aj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b ir sievas, kas, skatoties \u0161o sarunu, sastingst un prasa, kas notika, k\u0101 v\u012brs s\u0101ka run\u0101t? Jo t\u0101 ir probl\u0113ma, kad sievas tie\u0161i ir nezi\u0146\u0101, k\u0101 lai v\u012brs s\u0101k run\u0101t&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> Nav jau t\u0101, ka es nerun\u0101ju, es run\u0101ju. Dar\u012bju tikai to, k\u0101 v\u012brietis un par to, kas notiek apk\u0101rt, par ma\u0161\u012bn\u0101m\u2026<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> \u2026un par ziv\u012bm..<em> (smejas)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> J\u0101, man\u0101 skat\u012bjum\u0101 par interesant\u0101m liet\u0101m, bet izr\u0101d\u012bj\u0101s, ka sieviet\u0113m saj\u016btas un emocijas vajag. V\u012brie\u0161i vienk\u0101r\u0161i nav radu\u0161i par to daudz run\u0101t. Tom\u0113r tur bija ar\u012b kas t\u0101ds man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113, kas daudz ko main\u012bja. Te non\u0101kam pie vienas no pamatkr\u012bz\u0113m, kas bija viena no gr\u016bt\u0101kaj\u0101m un t\u0101 bija saist\u012bta ar atkar\u012bb\u0101m. Man sav\u0101 laik\u0101 bija nopietnas probl\u0113mas ar azartsp\u0113l\u0113m. Kad es to apzin\u0101jos, ka t\u0101 ir jau j\u0101risina, es non\u0101cu l\u012bdz Minesotas programmai. Taj\u0101 kurs\u0101 m\u0101c\u012bja m\u016bs run\u0101t par sav\u0101m saj\u016bt\u0101m. \u013boti bie\u017ei atkar\u012bbas ir saist\u012btas ar blo\u0137\u0113t\u0101s saj\u016bt\u0101m un emocij\u0101m. Man t\u0101das bija un l\u012bdz br\u012bdim, kad es to apzin\u0101jos, es t\u0101s sl\u0101p\u0113ju. Kad es uzzin\u0101ju par risin\u0101jumu un veidu, k\u0101 main\u012bt savu dz\u012bvi, tad s\u0101ku to pielietot sav\u0101 laul\u012bb\u0101. L\u012bdz laul\u012bbai es to it k\u0101 zin\u0101ju, bet nelietoju to praks\u0113. Tas, protams, n\u0101k komplekt\u0101 ar uztic\u0113\u0161anos sievai.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>V\u012brie\u0161i nav gatavi katram izst\u0101st\u012bt par to, k\u0101 vi\u0146i j\u016bt\u0101s, k\u0101das ir emocijas. Vi\u0146i to ir gatavi dar\u012bt tam, kam uzticas l\u012bdz galam. Jo vair\u0101k es uztic\u0113jos savai sievai, jo vair\u0101k sapratu, ka varu st\u0101st\u012bt vi\u0146ai par sav\u0101m emocij\u0101m. T\u0101 ar\u012b n\u0101ca atbilde Ing\u016bnai.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> Mums t\u0101 komunik\u0101cija aizg\u0101ja tik labi, ka atceros, mums bija viens brauciens ar autobusu uz V\u0101ciju un \u0160veici. M\u0113s visu ce\u013cu nep\u0101rtraukti run\u0101j\u0101mies par visu kaut ko. Tikai run\u0101j\u0101m un run\u0101j\u0101m&#8230; Mums tagad ir tik interesanti sav\u0101 starp\u0101. Man neveidojas t\u0101 saj\u016bta, ka es dz\u012bvotu ar sve\u0161inieku un ka nesaprotu, kas vi\u0146a pasaul\u0113 notiek. Tagad ir tik viegli! V\u0113l tas noz\u012bm\u0113, ka nekas nes\u0101k kr\u0101ties iek\u0161\u0101. Tikl\u012bdz ir k\u0101da lieta, m\u0113s to izrun\u0101jam. Ne vienm\u0113r t\u0101 izrun\u0101\u0161an\u0101s notiek ro\u017eaini, m\u0113dz b\u016bt ar\u012b it\u0101\u013cu varianti komunic\u0113jot <em>(smejas).<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> Man sav\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 t\u0101 reakcija konflikta gad\u012bjum\u0101 b\u016btu v\u0113lme nol\u012bst sev\u012b, paburk\u0161\u0137\u0113t, pacepties un iet gul\u0113t, bet paldies Dievam, Ing\u016bnai ir \u0161is vesel\u012bgais trauc\u0113klis, ka vi\u0146a nevar konfliktsitu\u0101cij\u0101 aiziet gul\u0113t, kam\u0113r nav izrun\u0101ts un atrisin\u0101ts taj\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 dien\u0101.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: J\u016bs p\u0101r\u0113jo dz\u012bvi taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b apst\u0101din\u0101t un risin\u0101t konkr\u0113to jaut\u0101jumu?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> J\u0101, tas tiek risin\u0101ts uzreiz. Es nepanesu konfliktus. Un mums tie nav biju\u0161i t\u0101di dzi\u013cie, mums ir daudz emocion\u0101l\u0101s diskusijas un situ\u0101ciju risin\u0101\u0161anas.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> J\u0101, ir k\u0101dreiz k\u0101ds ska\u013c\u0101ks v\u0101rds, ne vienm\u0113r divi konstrukt\u012bvi aps\u0113\u017eas un visu atrisina. Ir emocijas gan vienam, gan otram. Bet paliek fakts \u2013 m\u0113s run\u0101jam! Padoms, k\u0101 iziet no jebkuras kr\u012bzes ir \u2013 atrasts kompromiss kaut k\u0101d\u0101 liet\u0101. Tam nav gatavas receptes, k\u0101 to atrast. Katr\u0101 reiz\u0113 es aps\u0113\u017eos un dom\u0101ju, kas man b\u016btu vismaz\u0101k s\u0101p\u012bgais taj\u0101, kas mani apmierin\u0101s, lai izietu no probl\u0113mas. To r\u0101da attiec\u012bbu pieredze, ka bie\u017ei pat beig\u0101s tas nav kompromiss, es neesmu zaud\u0113t\u0101js un man pat\u012bk risin\u0101jums.<\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: Vai nav t\u0101, ka tu vienk\u0101r\u0161i piek\u0101pies?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> Tad, kad ir kompromiss, tad jau abi divi kaut kam piek\u0101pjas. M\u0113s atrodam tre\u0161o, kas abiem der.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> Ir bijis \u013coti reti, kad k\u0101ds piln\u012bb\u0101 \u013caujas otra cilv\u0113ka risin\u0101jumam vai pied\u0101v\u0101jumam. Kop\u012bgi run\u0101jot, atrodam kop\u012bgu risin\u0101jumu.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h3>Rihards: Ir t\u0101ds joks par kompromisiem un to, k\u0101 vienoties, kad pirms savies\u012bg\u0101 pas\u0101kuma v\u012bram pie uzvalka gribas vilkt meln\u0101s kurpes, bet sieva saka, n\u0113 \u2013 br\u016bn\u0101s. Rezult\u0101t\u0101 \u2013 vien\u0101 k\u0101j\u0101 ir melna un otr\u0101 \u2013 br\u016bn\u0101\u2026 J\u016bsu gad\u012bjums izklaus\u0101s, ka vienojaties un \u0146emsiet\u2026<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> ..zil\u0101s! (smejas)<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Visur \u0161eit ir t\u0101 sp\u0113ja sadzird\u0113t otru un sp\u0113ja pateikt caur komunik\u0101ciju. Viens no laul\u012bbas fundament\u0101liem m\u0101c\u012bbu priek\u0161metiem, ja t\u0101 varam teikt, ir sp\u0113ja sarun\u0101ties un sarunu m\u0101ksla.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> J\u0101, lai tevi sadzird\u0113tu, tev pa\u0161am no s\u0101kuma ir bi\u0161kuc ar\u012b j\u0101paklaus\u0101s otru. Ne vienm\u0113r tas ir viegli. Ja gribu labu rezult\u0101tu, man taj\u0101 otr\u0101 pus\u0113 ir j\u0101ieklaus\u0101s.<\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: J\u016bs esat ien\u0101ku\u0161i laul\u012bb\u0101, k\u0101 saka, visai nezino\u0161i par komunik\u0101ciju, un tie\u0161i laul\u012bba ir mudin\u0101jusi \u0161o iema\u0146u apg\u016bt. Pie jums ir redzams, ka \u0161o iema\u0146u patie\u0161\u0101m var apg\u016bt.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> J\u0101, noteikti. V\u0113l viena lieta, kas ir apg\u016bstama un kas man bija laul\u012bbas s\u0101kum\u0101, ir par \u0161o nemieru, kas att\u012bst\u012bja t\u0101l\u0101k man\u012b sp\u0113c\u012bgu ieradumu, ka es vair\u0101k neko pozit\u012bvu sav\u0101 v\u012br\u0101 neredz\u0113ju. Man lik\u0101s, ar ko esmu apprec\u0113jusies? Sapratu, ka ar to j\u0101s\u0101k c\u012bn\u012bties un atn\u0101ca doma, ka ir j\u0101uzraksta s\u0101kum\u0101 saraksts ar vi\u0146a labaj\u0101m \u012bpa\u0161\u012bb\u0101m. Es uzrakst\u012bju divas \u012bpa\u0161\u012bbas. Pr\u0101ts bija aptum\u0161ots tik \u013coti, ka neredz\u0113ju neko citu. Tom\u0113r es turpin\u0101ju par to dom\u0101t, jo apjautu, ka esmu vienk\u0101r\u0161i saind\u0113jusies ar sav\u0101m negat\u012bvaj\u0101m dom\u0101m. Tas g\u0101ja kop\u0101 ar l\u016bg\u0161anu Dievam, es katru dienu l\u016bdzu par savu laul\u012bbu. Tad vien\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b atn\u0101ca t\u0101da br\u012bv\u012bbas saj\u016bta un t\u0101s Nila lab\u0101s lietas un pozit\u012bvais vi\u0146\u0101 s\u0101ka ar t\u0101du k\u0101 joni g\u0101zties. Es ieraudz\u012bju v\u0113l un v\u0113l.Un \u0161is st\u0101sts nav apst\u0101jies v\u0113l aizvien. Es atsakos \u0161odien koncentr\u0113ties uz negat\u012bvaj\u0101m liet\u0101m. Es vi\u0146am saku lab\u0101s lietas, es saviem draugiem st\u0101stu un tie\u0161\u0101m t\u0101 ar\u012b dom\u0101ju, cik man ir br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bgs v\u012brs. Jebkur\u0161 cilv\u0113ks var izv\u0113l\u0113ties, vai skat\u012bties uz negat\u012bvo pusi vai pozit\u012bvo. Sieva mier\u012bgi var\u0113tu sav\u0101m draudzen\u0113m st\u0101st\u012bt, ka v\u012brs t\u0101ds un t\u0101ds, t\u0101 sevi arvien no jauna ind\u0113jot.<\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: Tu st\u0101st\u012bji kaut ko par v\u012bru draudzen\u0113m?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> Laul\u012bbas s\u0101kum\u0101 j\u0101, tagad tas ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i sl\u0113gts, jo t\u0101 ir b\u012bstama lieta. Tas vispirms ind\u0113 mani, emocijas, bet es gribu pasarg\u0101t savu laul\u012bbu. Es gribu palikt taj\u0101, ka redzu labo.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Rihards:<\/strong> Vai vari past\u0101st\u012bt, k\u0101 tev pal\u012bdz\u0113ja l\u016bg\u0161ana, ko tu piemin\u0113ji? Kas notika l\u016bg\u0161an\u0101?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> T\u0101s bija katru dienu izmisuma l\u016bg\u0161anas. Atceros, ka mums pirmais b\u0113rni\u0146\u0161 pieteic\u0101s jau medusm\u0113nes\u012b un atceros, ka pirmaj\u0101 laul\u012bbas gad\u0101 staig\u0101ju ar rati\u0146iem jau un raudot l\u016bdzu Dievu. Man toreiz tik \u013coti vajadz\u0113ja pie k\u0101 tverties.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Vai Tev bija l\u016bg\u0161ana: \u201cDievs, maini manu v\u012bru!\u201d?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> \u0160ito es neatceros, bet es zinu, ka man bija v\u0113l\u0113\u0161an\u0101s izmain\u012bt savu v\u012bru k\u0101 absol\u016bti, manupr\u0101t, vis\u0101m siev\u0101m. Man ar\u012b t\u0101da v\u0113lme bija. Citas varb\u016bt to m\u0113\u0123ina visu savu laul\u012bbu, mums tas nostr\u0101d\u0101ja cit\u0101 virzien\u0101. Es pilin\u0101ju Nilam ko es grib\u0113tu, ko vi\u0146am vajadz\u0113tu cit\u0101d\u0101k, l\u012bdz reizei, kad bija konflikts. Cik tad v\u012brietis var panest, ka vi\u0146am sieva baksta un arvien slim\u012bg\u0101k visu nor\u0101da. Tad, kad izv\u0113rt\u0101s tas lielais konflikts, man v\u012brs p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i teica t\u0101 \u2013 ja tu kaut ko gribi, lai es daru, tad s\u0101c tu pirm\u0101! Mana pirm\u0101 reakcija bija \u2013 k\u0101d\u0101 sakar\u0101?! Es vi\u0146am, piem\u0113ram, teicu, es gribu, lai tu mani bie\u017e\u0101k sam\u012b\u013co. Vi\u0146\u0161 atbild\u0113ja, ja tu gribi, lai es tevi bie\u017e\u0101k sam\u012b\u013coju, n\u0101c tu mani m\u012b\u013co\u2026 caur to sapratu, ka man paties\u012bb\u0101 vajadz\u0113ja to br\u012bv\u012bbu dab\u016bt taj\u0101s liet\u0101s. Cik tad es varu gaid\u012bt, un es s\u0101ku dar\u012bt to, kas man bija vajadz\u012bgs vai ko grib\u0113j\u0101s. Es s\u0101ku pirm\u0101 pamaz\u0101m. Tad es ieraudz\u012bju, cik \u013coti mans v\u012brs patie\u0161\u0101m nebija panesis pilin\u0101\u0161anu. Varb\u016bt citi v\u012bri to lai\u017e gar aus\u012bm\u2026 Nils to nepanes un es vair\u0101k t\u0101 nedaru!<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: T\u0101tad \u2013 run\u0101 skaidru valodu un par\u0101di, ko tu gribi, t\u0101, Nil?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> Ja Ing\u016bna s\u0101k pilin\u0101t k\u0101dreiz par k\u0101d\u0101m atsevi\u0161\u0137\u0101m nians\u0113m, par kaut ko, kas ir j\u0101izdara, man tas \u013coti \u0101tri s\u0101k apnikt. Ja man pal\u016bdz to gleznu pieskr\u016bv\u0113t pie t\u0101s sienas, tad es vai nu otr\u0101 dien\u0101 pieskr\u016bv\u0113\u0161u vai atrad\u012bsim kompromisu, k\u0101d\u0113\u013c t\u0101 glezna tur neb\u016bs.<\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: V\u0113l mazliet par \u0161o azartsp\u0113\u013cu atkar\u012bbu, vai tu jau ien\u0101ci laul\u012bb\u0101 ar kaut k\u0101diem atkar\u012bbas ied\u012bg\u013ciem vai ar\u012b \u0161\u012b pilin\u0101\u0161ana un attiec\u012bbu komunik\u0101cija piel\u0113ja e\u013c\u013cu ugunij?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> T\u0101 probl\u0113ma bija jau stipri pirms laul\u012bbas. T\u0101 ir ilg\u0101ka bijusi, nek\u0101 m\u016bsu laul\u012bba. Ar azartsp\u0113l\u0113m iepazinos k\u0101dos 16 gados, kad beidzu profesion\u0101l\u0101s sporta gaitas. Tas pavilka azartsp\u0113\u013cu virzien\u0101, jo sp\u0113l\u0113jot hokeju tu ikdien\u0101 regul\u0101ri saskaries ar uzvar\u0101m, sacens\u012bb\u0101m, tiek\u0161anos uz m\u0113\u0157ki un rezult\u0101tu. Tas azarts bija tas, kas man pietr\u016bka br\u012bd\u012b, kad beidz\u0101s profesion\u0101l\u0101s gaitas sport\u0101. Tad ar\u012b \u00a0s\u0101k\u0101s mans azartsp\u0113\u013cu s\u0101p\u012bgais maratons. K\u0101pin\u0101j\u0101s intensit\u0101te, tom\u0113r saprotu, ka bez t\u0101 visa es neb\u016btu saticis Dievu un neb\u016btu saticis ar\u012b Ing\u016bnu. Bet, j\u0101, pirms laul\u012bbas es nebiju ar to probl\u0113mu ticis gal\u0101, lai ar\u012b biju uzzin\u0101jis ce\u013cu, k\u0101 to risin\u0101t. T\u0101 c\u012b\u0146a man bija j\u0101izc\u012bna jau esot laul\u012bb\u0101. Biju dzird\u0113jis, k\u0101 Dievs k\u0101dreiz atbr\u012bvo vienas dienas laik\u0101 no k\u0101d\u0101m atkar\u012bb\u0101m, man\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 t\u0101 nenotika, man tas bija gar\u0101ks ce\u013c\u0161 ejams un da\u013ca no t\u0101 bija laul\u012bb\u0101. Bija vair\u0101ki smagi kritieni, un es patie\u0161\u0101m nov\u0113rt\u0113ju, ka man blakus bija mana br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bg\u0101 sieva, kas taj\u0101 laik\u0101 mani atbalst\u012bja un sadzird\u0113ja, m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ja iedzi\u013cin\u0101ties, nevis uzgrieza muguru vai aizejot prom. T\u0101 ir t\u0101 \u012bpa\u0161\u012bba, ko es vi\u0146\u0101 visvair\u0101k nov\u0113rt\u0113ju, ka vi\u0146a sp\u0113j mani pie\u0146emt un sadzird\u0113t. Vienam ir gr\u016bti ar to tikt gal\u0101.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Vai tu juti k\u0101d\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, ka tas ir tas br\u012bdis, kad nu patie\u0161\u0101m ir j\u0101tiek gal\u0101, jo cit\u0101di uz sp\u0113les tiek likta laul\u012bba?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> J\u0101, es sapratu, ka ja es t\u0101 turpin\u0101\u0161u, tad labs izn\u0101kums neb\u016bs. Lai ar\u012b es k\u0101d\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b kaut ko sak\u0101rtoju, bet bija t\u0101, ka pazuda ar\u012b dz\u012bves j\u0113ga, l\u012bdz sapratu, ka ir j\u0101atrod k\u0101das iek\u0161\u0113j\u0101s atbildes. Ja iedzi\u013cin\u0101mies atkar\u012bbas probl\u0113m\u0101, tad t\u0101 var b\u016bt vai nu laba vai slikta. Cilv\u0113kiem ir atkar\u012bbas no daudz\u0101m, ar\u012b pozit\u012bv\u0101m liet\u0101m, piem\u0113ram, no ce\u013cojumiem, kafijas. Bet t\u0101s at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bb\u0101 no azartsp\u0113l\u0113m, kas boj\u0101 dz\u012bvi, nav destrukt\u012bvas.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Azartsp\u0113les ir destrukt\u012bva atkar\u012bba, kas boj\u0101 dz\u012bvi. Man bija j\u0101atrod lietas, kas pa\u0146em mani tikpat sp\u0113c\u012bgi, bet pozit\u012bv\u0101 zi\u0146\u0101 un dod piepild\u012bjumu ar virzienu dz\u012bv\u0113, kas ved uz labu izn\u0101kumu.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3>Viktorija: Vai taj\u0101 laik\u0101 tu var\u0113ji ar k\u0101du br\u012bvi par to visu run\u0101t? Nesen dzird\u0113ju divus jaunie\u0161us, kuri tik br\u012bvi run\u0101ja viens ar otru par azartsp\u0113l\u0113m un alkoholu, tur nebija nek\u0101das no\u017e\u0113las, dr\u012bz\u0101k uzvaras nots taj\u0101, ka viss atkal nosp\u0113l\u0113ts. Varb\u016bt \u0161odien t\u0101 ir modes lieta, par ko var run\u0101t t\u0101 br\u012bvi? K\u0101 tev bija?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> Laikam br\u012bvi par to run\u0101t var tikai l\u012bdz br\u012bdim, kam\u0113r tu neapzinies , ka t\u0101 ir probl\u0113ma. Kad es to apzin\u0101jos, tad palika arvien gr\u016bt\u0101k atrast cilv\u0113ku, ar kuru run\u0101t.<\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: Kas tev lika apzin\u0101ties, ka t\u0101 ir probl\u0113ma?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Nils:<\/strong> tas bija laik\u0101, kad es atst\u0101ju vienu algu, otru algu, bija ies\u0101kts melot un zaud\u0113tas attiec\u012bbas ar draugiem. Redz\u0113ju, ka dz\u012bv\u0113 nekas nemain\u0101s un ka ir t\u0101da spir\u0101le lejup, tad ar\u012b s\u0101ku apzin\u0101ties. Vislab\u0101k apzin\u0101ties, ka tas c\u0113lonis ir \u0161\u012b te atkar\u012bba. Es savlaic\u012bgi to sapratu, ir svar\u012bgi, ka ir l\u012bdzcilv\u0113ki, kas to pal\u012bdz saprast un uzreiz nenosoda.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Ing\u016bn, ko tev noz\u012bm\u0113ja k\u0101 sievai atbalst\u012bt savu v\u012bru?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> Jau pirms k\u0101z\u0101m es zin\u0101ju par \u0161o atkar\u012bbu, bet es nebiju nekad sask\u0101rusies ar to, es nezin\u0101ju, ko tas noz\u012bm\u0113. Es biju naiva un man lik\u0101s, ka nekas tas briesm\u012bgi nav. Pirmaj\u0101 laul\u012bbas gad\u0101 bija diezgan daudzas reizes, kad Nils g\u0101ja sp\u0113l\u0113t. Azartsp\u0113les ir ar\u012b gar\u012bgas un d\u0113moniskas lietas, tu j\u016bti, ka taj\u0101 atmosf\u0113r\u0101 kaut kas nav labi, pat ja v\u012brs man uzreiz to nest\u0101sta. Tad ir saruna, tad n\u0101k trieciens, tu uzzini, ka jau ir kred\u012bti pa\u0146emti. Taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b vienm\u0113r bija liela no\u017e\u0113la un vienm\u0113r cer\u012bba, ka tas beigsies. Man Nilam pal\u012bdz\u0113ja dot to \u017e\u0113last\u012bbu tas, ka es pati gadiem biju c\u012bn\u012bjusies ar kaut k\u0101d\u0101m ve\u0123etat\u012bvaj\u0101m bail\u0113m, kad sapratu, ka tas ir kaut kas sp\u0113c\u012bg\u0101ks par mani. Pati zin\u0101ju, ka c\u012bnos un nav viegli un tad nepal\u012bdz, ja tev k\u0101ds pasaka \u2013 \u201cnu nebaidies, pasaki ta\u010du n\u0113 tai lietai.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Bet j\u016bs esat tas p\u0101ris, kas ir piedz\u012bvojis to br\u012bnumu un esat atrisin\u0101ju\u0161i. Durvis ir aizv\u0113rtas uz \u0161iem atkar\u012bbas gadiem. Ir tik mazi procenti, kas sp\u0113j izk\u013c\u016bt no \u0161\u012bm atkar\u012bb\u0101m, nemaz nerun\u0101jot par laul\u012bb\u0101m, kas izjuku\u0161as to d\u0113\u013c.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ing\u016bna:<\/strong> Slava Dievam, tie ir jau daudzi gadi, kad esam piedz\u012bvoju\u0161i piln\u012bgu br\u012bv\u012bbu. Zin\u0101m, ka tagad varam celt savu dz\u012bvi t\u0101l\u0101k un ka m\u016bsu laul\u012bba ir tie\u0161\u0101m br\u012bnums. Ja neb\u016btu Dieva, es nezinu, kur m\u0113s b\u016btu \u0161obr\u012bd. Jo, j\u0101, bija domas, ka ja tas v\u0113l turpin\u0101sies, man ir j\u0101iet prom.<\/p>\n<p><em>Paldies par sarunu Laufma\u0146u p\u0101rim!<\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\">\n<p>Video apl\u0101de \u201cLaul\u012bba \u2013 laim\u012bgi l\u012bdz m\u016b\u017ea galam?\u201d ir sagatavota ar Sabiedr\u012bbas integr\u0101cijas fonda finansi\u0101lu atbalstu no Latvijas valsts bud\u017eeta l\u012bdzek\u013ciem. 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