{"id":3467,"date":"2023-05-31T14:53:11","date_gmt":"2023-05-31T12:53:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/?p=3467"},"modified":"2023-10-16T16:16:27","modified_gmt":"2023-10-16T14:16:27","slug":"lauliba-naudu-likt-kopa-vai-katram-teret-savu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/lauliba-naudu-likt-kopa-vai-katram-teret-savu\/","title":{"rendered":"Laul\u012bb\u0101 naudu likt kop\u0101 vai katram t\u0113r\u0113t savu?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-bg-parallax\" data-bg-align=\"center center\" data-direction=\"up\" data-mute=\"false\" data-opacity=\"100\" data-velocity=\"-0.2\" data-mobile-enabled=\"false\" data-break_parents=\"0\" data-bg-image=\"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Ingus-Bukss-Liene-Buksa-lauliba-1800.jpg\" data-bg-repeat=\"false\" ><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container fusion-parallax-up nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-sizes-top:0px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:0px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:200px;--awb-padding-bottom:80px;--awb-background-image:url(&quot;https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Ingus-Bukss-Liene-Buksa-lauliba-1800.jpg&quot;);--awb-background-size:cover;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:calc( 1170px + 0px );margin-left: calc(-0px \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-0px \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-padding-right:11%;--awb-padding-left:11%;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:0px;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:0px;--awb-spacing-left-medium:0px;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:0px;--awb-spacing-left-small:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><h2 style=\"text-align: center; color: #fff;\">LAUL\u012aB\u0100 NAUDU LIKT KOP\u0100 VAI KATRAM T\u0112R\u0112T SAVU?<\/h2>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:40px;width:100%;max-width:200px;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#f6861f;border-color:#f6861f;border-top-width:3px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p style=\"text-align: center; font-size: 24px; color: #fff; font-weight: 300;\">Laul\u012bbas pieredz\u0113 dal\u0101s Ingus un Liene Buk\u0161i<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-background-position:left top;--awb-border-sizes-top:0px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:0px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:35px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1216.8px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:66.666666666667%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:2.88%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:2.88%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><h5><strong>Iedvesmojo\u0161s p\u0101ris \u2013 Ingus un Liene Buk\u0161i, kuri ir p\u0101rliecin\u0101ti, ka mekl\u0113t pal\u012bdz\u012bbu sav\u0101 laul\u012bb\u0101 &#8211; t\u0101 nav v\u0101juma paz\u012bme. Sav\u0101 profesion\u0101laj\u0101 ikdien\u0101 \u2013 programm\u0113t\u0101js un m\u0101rketinga speci\u0101liste, sav\u0101 priv\u0101taj\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 \u2013 drosm\u012bgs p\u0101ris, kas teju 22 laul\u012bbas gados ir gan atv\u0113ru\u0161i sirdi diviem adopt\u0113tiem b\u0113rniem, gan p\u0101rsteigu\u0161i ik pa septi\u0146iem gadiem savus draugus, pier\u0101dot, ka pie laul\u012bbu konsultanta iet, nevis t\u0101p\u0113c, ka grib \u0161\u0137irties, bet gan \u2013 ka v\u0113las neiz\u0161\u0137irties un iem\u0101c\u012bties v\u0113l lab\u0101k komunic\u0113t ar otru. Kam\u0113r citiem p\u0101riem finanses ir klup\u0161anas akmens, Buk\u0161u p\u0101ris br\u012bd\u012b, kad \u201cviss nobruka\u201d, s\u0101ka kop\u012bgi m\u0101c\u012bties, k\u0101 p\u0101rvald\u012bt nopeln\u012bto, k\u0101 gudri r\u012bkoties ar finans\u0113m, t\u0101 sasniedzot ar\u012b pa\u0161u attiec\u012bb\u0101s jaunas virsotnes. \u0160aj\u0101 sarun\u0101 uzzin\u0101sim, k\u0101p\u0113c septi\u0146u eiro d\u0113\u013c Ingus Lienei teica, ka atkal laiks ir zvan\u012bt psihoterapeitam, ko Liene izdar\u012bja reiz t\u0101du, ko v\u012brs atceras un saka, ka patiesi lepojas ar savu sievu un k\u0101 tikt gal\u0101, ja \u201dkomunik\u0101cijas trubas\u201d aizs\u0113r\u0113ju\u0161as? Sarun\u0101jas Rihards un Viktorija Kostigovi.<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-video fusion-youtube\" style=\"--awb-max-width:800px;--awb-max-height:450px;--awb-align-self:center;--awb-width:100%;\"><div class=\"video-shortcode\"><div class=\"fluid-width-video-wrapper\" style=\"padding-top:56.25%;\" ><iframe title=\"YouTube video player 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/II5gHKNT5d0?wmode=transparent&autoplay=0&amp;rel=0\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" allowfullscreen allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\">\n<p><strong>Video versij\u0101 noskatieties ar\u012b, ko uz Buk\u0161u p\u0101ra \u012bpa\u0161o jaut\u0101jumu \u201cVai un k\u0101 uzturs ietekm\u0113 laul\u012bbu un ko ies\u0101kt, ja galvenais gatavot\u0101js\/-a ir noguris?\u201d atbild eksperte \u2013 uztura speci\u0101liste Gita Ignace (57 min).<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: J\u016bs teic\u0101t, ka sav\u0101 nu jau 21 gadu ilgaj\u0101 laul\u012bb\u0101 (t\u016bl\u012bt b\u016bs 22 gadi), esat piedz\u012bvoju\u0161i kr\u012bzes ik pa septi\u0146iem gadiem. L\u016bdzu ieskic\u0113jiet, kas bija taj\u0101 pirmaj\u0101 septi\u0146gad\u0113, kad ce\u013c\u0161 aizveda pat l\u012bdz p\u0101ru terapeitam?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Tas galvenais iemesls bija, ka p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i saprat\u0101m, ka nevaram parun\u0101t viens ar otru. M\u0113\u0123in\u0101j\u0101m run\u0101t, tas \u013coti \u0101tri non\u0101ca pie klieg\u0161anas un nesp\u0113j\u0101m vairs saprasties. Tad v\u012brs teica, ka mums ir vajadz\u012bgs k\u0101ds, kas pal\u012bdz \u201cizt\u012br\u012bt komunik\u0101cijas trubas\u201d. Aizg\u0101j\u0101m pie br\u012bni\u0161\u0137\u012bga terapeita \u2013 Gata L\u012bduma.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Un vi\u0146\u0161 mums uzskait\u012bja visu, ko bij\u0101m izdar\u012bju\u0161i \u2013 bij\u0101m nopirku\u0161i m\u0101ju, pa\u0146\u0113mu\u0161i suni, adopt\u0113ju\u0161i pirmo b\u0113rnu, ka\u0137is bija jauns un tas bija vesels komplekts. Terapeits teica: &#8220;Lieliski, j\u016bs esat izdar\u012bju\u0161i visu, kas nepiecie\u0161ams, lai izn\u012bcin\u0101tu savu laul\u012bbu. Ja p\u0101rdz\u012bvosiet \u0161o, tad viss b\u016bs k\u0101rt\u012bb\u0101.&#8221; Toreiz vi\u0146a teiktais jau no\u0146\u0113ma k\u0101dus 80% no t\u0101s spriedzes, saprat\u0101m, ka viss ir norm\u0101li un ka neesam d\u012bvaini.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> T\u0101 bija pirm\u0101 m\u016bsu kop\u012bg\u0101 iem\u0101c\u012bt\u0101 lieta \u2013 mekl\u0113t pal\u012bdz\u012bbu.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Viktorija: Vai saj\u016bta, ka vajag pal\u012bdz\u012bbu, atn\u0101ca jums abiem dabiski un reiz\u0113?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Es laikam pat biju tas, kas vair\u0101k iest\u0101j\u0101s par \u0161o, lai mekl\u0113tu pal\u012bdz\u012bbu. Tad, kad m\u0113s prec\u0113j\u0101mies mums bija noruna \u2013 \u0161\u0137ir\u0161an\u0101s nav opcija un vai nu m\u0113s <em>koeksist\u0113jam<\/em>, ja neatrisin\u0101m probl\u0113mas vai ejam un t\u0101s risin\u0101m. P\u0113c tiem pirmajiem septi\u0146iem gadiem saprat\u0101m, ka nu tas mirklis ir, kad \u0161\u0137ir\u0161an\u0101s nav opcija, <em>koeksist\u0113t<\/em> negribam, tad ejam un mekl\u0113jam risin\u0101jumu. Pats interesant\u0101kais bija tad, kad m\u016bsu draugi padzird\u0113ja, ka ejam pie p\u0101ra konsultanta. Vi\u0146i uzreiz mums pras\u012bja, vai tie\u0161\u0101m viss ir tik slikti un vai m\u0113s \u0161\u0137irsimies? T\u0101 ideja vi\u0146iem bija, ja nu ejam pie p\u0101ra konsultanta, tad visi stri\u0137i nu ir tr\u016bku\u0161i&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Un mums n\u0101c\u0101s skaidrot, ka n\u0113, m\u0113s ejam tie\u0161i, lai ne\u0161\u0137irtos <em>(smejas)<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Gr\u016bt\u0101kais bija ieskaidrot, ka m\u0113s tie\u0161i ejam, kam\u0113r viss v\u0113l nav aizg\u0101jis l\u012bdz \u0161\u0137ir\u0161an\u0101s. Tas bija visai komiski. M\u0113s vienk\u0101r\u0161i saprat\u0101m, ka nu ir k\u0101ds laiks pag\u0101jis, kur\u0101 vairs nesp\u0113jam komunic\u0113t bez p\u0101rmetumiem. Bija skaidrs, ka ir kaut kas \u0161\u0137\u0113rs\u0101m. Mums paveic\u0101s, ka tik\u0101m pie L\u012bduma.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Kad svin\u0113j\u0101m 15 gadu k\u0101zu jubileju, uztais\u012bj\u0101m liel\u0101ku balli teras\u0113, saaicin\u0101j\u0101m draugus un k\u0101ds toreiz pras\u012bja, kas ir m\u016bsu laul\u012bbas nosl\u0113pums? V\u012brs teica \u2013 ka p\u0101ru terapeits un Dieva \u017e\u0113last\u012bba!<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Piekr\u012btu, jo k\u0101das gan terapijas neesam g\u0101ju\u0161i \u2013 gan par laul\u012bbu, gan par b\u0113rniem, jo ir bijusi vajadz\u012bga pal\u012bdz\u012bba no malas, saprotam, ka pa\u0161i ar saviem sp\u0113kiem neb\u016btu tiku\u0161i gal\u0101. T\u0101 absol\u016bti nav v\u0101juma paz\u012bme, esam tikai un vien\u012bgi ieguvu\u0161i. (L.Buk\u0161a)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3>Rihards: Tas stereotips ir diezgan sp\u0113c\u012bgs, jau pirms k\u0101da laika, kad <em>Google<\/em> ierakst\u012bju v\u0101rdus \u201claul\u012bbu konsult\u0101cija\u201d, pirmie ieraksti, kas par\u0101d\u0101s pirmaj\u0101 lap\u0101 ir par laul\u012bbas \u0161\u0137ir\u0161anu, opcij\u0101m un skaidrojumiem, k\u0101 to izdar\u012bt. Tur nav st\u0101sts par iesp\u0113ju ko salabot. M\u0113s \u0161odien vair\u0101k gribam parun\u0101t par t\u0113mu, kas ir vienm\u0113r ar\u012b taj\u0101 t\u0113mu top trijniek\u0101, par ko daudz negrib run\u0101t \u2013 tic\u012bba, politika un nauda. Jums pal\u012bdz\u012bbas mekl\u0113\u0161ana un domas par probl\u0113mu risin\u0101\u0161anu liel\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101 saist\u0101s tie\u0161i ar naudu un finans\u0113m.<\/h3>\n<h3>Viktorija: Nauda, k\u0101 zin\u0101m, ir ar\u012b taj\u0101 top\u0101, kur run\u0101 par kr\u012bz\u0113m un neatrisin\u0101tajiem str\u012bdiem. Str\u012bdi par naudu un nesp\u0113ja atrisin\u0101t finansi\u0101los jaut\u0101jumus attiec\u012bb\u0101s ir otraj\u0101 viet\u0101 aiz str\u012bdiem par m\u0101jsaimniec\u012bbas jaut\u0101jumiem, kas noved pie dzi\u013c\u0101m kr\u012bz\u0113m. K\u0101 atceraties, vai j\u016bsu attiec\u012bbu s\u0101kum\u0101, j\u016bs k\u0101ds m\u0101c\u012bja par to, ka finanses laul\u012bb\u0101 ar\u012b ir viens no jaut\u0101jumiem, kur vajadz\u0113tu run\u0101t un prast apieties?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> M\u016bs neviens nem\u0101c\u012bja un tur ar\u012b ir t\u0101 gr\u016bt\u012bba \u2013 katrs laul\u012bb\u0101 ien\u0101k ar savu pieredzi un bag\u0101\u017eu, sav\u0101m \u0123imenes trad\u012bcij\u0101m un tad \u0161iem diviem cilv\u0113kiem ar piln\u012bgi da\u017e\u0101d\u0101m izpratn\u0113m un ar\u012b v\u0113rt\u012bbu krit\u0113rijiem j\u0101sp\u0113j sast\u0101d\u012bt \u0123imenes bud\u017eetu. M\u0113s par to neko nezin\u0101j\u0101m. Pie t\u0101 non\u0101c\u0101m tikai gadiem ejot, kad apjaut\u0101m, ka atkal un atkal atduramies br\u012bd\u012b, kad abiem norm\u0101li pelnot, tom\u0113r nevaram l\u012bdz algai aizvilkt\u2026Uzdev\u0101m jaut\u0101jumu, k\u0101 tas var b\u016bt, jo str\u0101d\u0101jam p\u0113c lab\u0101k\u0101s sirdsapzi\u0146as un pilnas slodzes darbus ar norm\u0101l\u0101m alg\u0101m, k\u0101p\u0113c t\u0101 notiek atkal un atkal? Teic\u0101m, ka kaut kas nav pareizi taj\u0101. Mans v\u012brs, kur\u0161 ir izteikts mekl\u0113t\u0101js un p\u0113t\u012bt\u0101js, s\u0101ka mekl\u0113t k\u0101dus avotus.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Kad s\u0101k\u0101m dz\u012bvot kop\u0101, vad\u012bj\u0101mies p\u0113c principa, ka ir kaut k\u0101di kop\u0113jie izdevumi, piem\u0113ram, maks\u0101jumi par dz\u012bvokli un komun\u0101lajiem maks\u0101jumiem, tos katrs no savas algas uz pus\u0113m samet\u0101m kop\u0101 un visu, kas paliek p\u0101ri, katrs t\u0113r\u0113ja k\u0101 grib. Tad, kad main\u012bj\u0101s algas uz vienu vai otru pusi, m\u0113\u0123in\u0101j\u0101m proporcion\u0101li skat\u012bties. Kad uzs\u0101ku savu biznesu, s\u0101kum\u0101 bija \u0161vaki ar ien\u0101kumiem, tad es maks\u0101ju mazliet maz\u0101k un Liene \u2013 vair\u0101k.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: J\u016bs t\u0101 kalkul\u0113j\u0101t visu?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Nu es esmu <em>cipargalva<\/em> un Liene ir <em>br\u012bvais gars<\/em>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> J\u0101, m\u0113s \u013coti cent\u0101mies un Ingus t\u0101das un \u0161it\u0101das tabuli\u0146as r\u0113\u0137in\u0101ja. Tom\u0113r kaut kas nestr\u0101d\u0101ja un mums bija daudz str\u012bdu par \u0161iem jaut\u0101jumiem, viens otram daudz ko p\u0101rmet\u0101m. naudas lietas m\u016bsu laul\u012bb\u0101 toreiz bija liels str\u012bdus \u0101bols.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Atceros, ka tad, kad treknajos gados m\u0113s peln\u012bj\u0101m labas naudas, tad sapratu, ka tas, k\u0101 dz\u012bvojam, nav pareizi, ka naudu notrallin\u0101m, bet nebija padomu, ko ies\u0101kt. Bija apk\u0101rt tas m\u016b\u017e\u012bgais uzskats, ka dz\u012bvojam ta\u010du vienreiz, kad tad, ja ne tagad&#8230; Kad 2012. gad\u0101 \u010detru m\u0113ne\u0161u laik\u0101 mums katru otro dienu kaut kas juka un bruka un kam vajadz\u0113ja naudu visu laiku. Kaut kur jau to naudu atrad\u0101m, bet p\u0113d\u0113jais br\u012bdis bija, kad aizmirsu karti bankom\u0101t\u0101.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Tas bija k\u0101 mazais salmi\u0146\u0161, kas salauza kamielim muguru. Es re\u0101li sabruku. tad, kad tinu &#8220;to filmi\u0146u atpaka\u013c&#8221;, tad sapratu, ka katra no t\u0101m epizod\u0113m, kas bija tajos \u010detros m\u0113ne\u0161os notikusi, nebija jau tra\u0123\u0113dija, t\u0101s visas it k\u0101 bija norm\u0101las dz\u012bves sast\u0101vda\u013cas. (I.Buk\u0161s)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Sapratu, ka nevar ta\u010du t\u0101 b\u016bt, ka l\u012bdz \u0161im nav neviens atradis risin\u0101jumu, lai t\u0101di mazi ikdienas s\u012bkumi nenovestu pie t\u0101da l\u016bzuma, k\u0101ds man bija iest\u0101jies. Atcer\u0113jos, ka es <em>Amazon\u0113<\/em> biju redz\u0113jis starp gr\u0101mat\u0101m vienu t\u0101du smaid\u012bgu amerik\u0101ni Deivu Remziju un vi\u0146a &#8220;Total money makeover&#8221;.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Tu k\u0101 latvietis biji gatavs notic\u0113t amerik\u0101nim?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Es paties\u012bb\u0101 s\u0101kum\u0101 biju diezgan skeptisks, man bija skaidra t\u0101 amerik\u0101\u0146u filozofija, ka viss ir par so\u013ciem, kurus veicot tev tiek sol\u012bti zelta kalni. Es palas\u012bju s\u0101kum\u0101 ievadu un j\u0101, ieraudz\u012bju &#8220;Seven steps&#8221;, nodom\u0101ju, labi, \u0161is ir atkal viens no &#8220;tiem&#8221;. Tom\u0113r kaut k\u0101 turpin\u0101ju las\u012bt, izlas\u012bju, ka \u0161\u012b neb\u016bs nek\u0101da tur sh\u0113ma un b\u016bs j\u0101iegulda gr\u016bts un smags darbs vair\u0101ku gadu garum\u0101. Tas man izklaus\u012bj\u0101s jau paties\u0101k un ticam\u0101k. Kad es iedzi\u013cin\u0101jos, ieraudz\u012bju lo\u0123iku taj\u0101 vis\u0101, jo tur nebija ne runas par k\u0101diem piram\u012bdu biznesiem vai invest\u012bcij\u0101m un akcij\u0101m. Tur bija par to, k\u0101 element\u0101ri sak\u0101rtot \u0123imenes bud\u017eetu. Gr\u0101matu nopirku un div\u0101s dien\u0101s izlas\u012bju, jau pirmaj\u0101 pus\u0113 lasot, man\u012b par\u0101d\u012bj\u0101s t\u0101da k\u0101 s\u0101pe un dusmas par to, ka neviens nekur nekad nav st\u0101st\u012bjis. Tur ieraudz\u012bju tik element\u0101ras lietas, bet saliktas smuki pa plaukti\u0146iem. Tas netiek m\u0101c\u012bts ne skol\u0101s, ne universit\u0101t\u0113s, nekur. Kad biju izlas\u012bjis gr\u0101matu, sapratu, ka ja nest\u0101st\u012b\u0161u t\u0101l\u0101k par ieg\u016bto, tad b\u016b\u0161u viens no tiem, uz kuriem pats dusmojos esot gr\u0101matas vid\u016b. Pirm\u0101 lieta, teicu sievai, ka \u0161\u0137iet esmu ko atradis&#8230;Mums tas bija teju divpadsmitais gads laul\u012bb\u0101.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Kur\u0161 no jums abiem piedz\u012bvot\u0101s finansi\u0101l\u0101s gr\u016bt\u012bbas s\u0101p\u012bg\u0101k uztv\u0113ra un izdz\u012bvoja &#8211; v\u012brs vai sieva?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> No Remzija gr\u0101matas ir doma, ka katram cilv\u0113kam tas riska dziedzeris ir cit\u0101d\u0101ks. Viens vair\u0101k ierauga k\u0101d\u0101s darb\u012bb\u0101s riska momentu, otrs par to tik daudz nedom\u0101. Es esmu tas cilv\u0113ks, kur\u0161 r\u016bp\u0113jas, lai mums te \u0123imen\u0113 b\u016btu vair\u0101k prieks un jautr\u012bba, Ingus, savuk\u0101rt, r\u016bp\u0113jas, lai mums ir nauda \u0123imen\u0113. Ingus dz\u012bv\u0113 daudz ko izm\u0113\u0123ina un paprov\u0113, daudz dom\u0101 par pa\u0161izaugsmi, tad es uz to saku: &#8220;J\u0101, m\u012b\u013cais!&#8221; <em>(smejas)<\/em><\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Tu dod termi\u0146u \u0161iem mekl\u0113jumiem?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Kam\u0113r man ko ne\u0146em nost <em>(smejas)<\/em>. Tad, kad vi\u0146\u0161 teica, ka ir atradis jaunu veidu k\u0101 izeju, es teicu &#8211; ok, tad, kad vi\u0146\u0161 teica, ka savelkam jostas un kaut ko nogrie\u017eam, tad es, protams, laim\u012bga nebiju.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> S\u0101kum\u0101 Liene spirin\u0101j\u0101s pret\u012b. Mums ve\u010diem norm\u0101li ir teikt &#8220;ko&#8221; m\u0113s dar\u012bsim un maz\u0101k &#8220;k\u0101p\u0113c&#8221; m\u0113s to dar\u012bsim. Mums finanses nekad tom\u0113r nav biju\u0161as atsevi\u0161\u0137as. Taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, kad es sapratu to bud\u017eet\u0113\u0161anas sist\u0113mu, grib\u0113ju jau p\u0113c pirmajiem trim m\u0113ne\u0161iem skriet kaln\u0101 un teikt, ka es beidzot esmu atradis! Katram no mums bija tas savs &#8220;AHA!&#8221; moments par to, ka t\u0101 sist\u0113ma str\u0101d\u0101. Tur visa bud\u017eet\u0113\u0161ana ir izveidota t\u0101, ka tu paredzi visas nepatik\u0161anas, nevis mekl\u0113 l\u012bdzek\u013cus tad, kad nepatik\u0161anas ir jau notiku\u0161as. Tu s\u0101c iekr\u0101t naudu pirms t\u0101m. ja tev ir iekr\u0101ts, tev t\u0101 probl\u0113ma, ja vi\u0146a notiek, jau ir maz\u0101ka nek\u0101, ja tev nav nek\u0101 iekr\u0101ts un paredz\u0113ts. Man t\u0101ds moments bija, kad es \u0113dot pelme\u0146us sa\u0161\u0137\u0113lu lielo zobu tr\u012bs da\u013c\u0101s&#8230; Pirm\u0101 doma bija par zob\u0101rstu, otr\u0101 &#8211; b\u0101c, cik tas maks\u0101s, bet tre\u0161\u0101 bija t\u0101da &#8211; bet paga, man jau tam ir atlikts. sapratu, ka par to naudu, kas jau bija uz to br\u012bdi atlikta, to probl\u0113mu es atrisin\u0101\u0161u. kad es aizg\u0101ju pie zob\u0101rsta un zin\u0101ju, ka man ir sakr\u0101ti 190 lati, bet man \u0101rsts papras\u012bja 50&#8230; es g\u0101ju m\u0101j\u0101s k\u0101 uzvar\u0113t\u0101js, jo man v\u0113l bija palikusi p\u0101ri nauda. Tas bija mans &#8220;AHA!&#8221; moments. Lienei bija l\u012bdz\u012bgs moments, kad bija b\u0113rnu pieraksti j\u0101veic.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Mums b\u0113rni bija adopt\u0113ti un s\u0101kum\u0101 bija vajadz\u012bgi daudz un da\u017e\u0101di speci\u0101listi &#8211; neirologi, psihiatri, psihologi un da\u017e\u0101di testi j\u0101veic, mums it k\u0101 valst\u012b ir bezmaksas medic\u012bna, bet b\u0113rniem jau pien\u0101ktu pilngad\u012bba, kam\u0113r sagaid\u012btu rindu tam, ko vajag&#8230;Es vien\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b sapratu, ka ja ir nepiecie\u0161am\u012bba kaut ko \u0101tri izdar\u012bt, es varu maksas konsult\u0101ciju at\u013cauties. saprat\u0101m, ka m\u016bsu ien\u0101kumu l\u012bmenis jau nav main\u012bjies. Sa\u0146\u0113m\u0101m to pa\u0161u algu, ko pirms tam, bet p\u0113k\u0161\u0146i mums bija nauda, kad to ievajadz\u0113j\u0101s!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> M\u0113s pirms tam, kad probl\u0113ma notika, m\u0113s to m\u0113\u0123in\u0101j\u0101m apdz\u0113st taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, kad t\u0101 uzrodas. ja notiek leilas probl\u0113mas, tad cilv\u0113ks bail\u0113s un steig\u0101 pie\u0146em visstulb\u0101kos spont\u0101nos l\u0113mumus. Tu met visu, kas pa rokai, probl\u0113mas virzien\u0101, un tu saproti, ka pie sabrukuma noved tie\u0161i t\u0101s maz\u0101s un paredzam\u0101s lietas.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Kur\u0161 tad nezina, ka b\u016bs Ziemassv\u0113tki, J\u0101\u0146i vai k\u0101da dzim\u0161anas diena, ka b\u016bs j\u0101labo ma\u0161\u012bna un j\u0101iziet tehnisk\u0101 apskate. tas viss ir paredzams un sapl\u0101nojams. Pat tas, kas nav paredzams ir paredzams! (I.Buk\u0161s)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Sist\u0113ma sast\u0101v no <strong>\u010detriem sarakstiem<\/strong>. Pirmais ir <strong>ikm\u0113ne\u0161a izdevumi<\/strong>. Tos vair\u0101k vai maz\u0101k m\u0113s visi zin\u0101m, t\u0101 ir p\u0101rtika, elektr\u012bba, teko\u0161\u0101s lietas. Otrais saraksts ir &#8211; <strong>paredzamie zin\u0101mie izdevumi<\/strong>. Liel\u0101k\u0101 laika posm\u0101 &#8211; nekustam\u0101 \u012bpa\u0161uma nodoklis, OCTAs, kanaliz\u0101cija, da\u017e\u0101das apkopes. Tu pat zini, cik tas viss maks\u0101s. M\u0113s to otro sarakstu dal\u0101m uz 12 un liekam ikm\u0113ne\u0161a poz\u012bcij\u0101m kl\u0101t. Tre\u0161ais &#8211; <strong>paredzam\u0101s nepatik\u0161anas<\/strong>, tie ir CSDD sodi, Ziemassv\u0113tku d\u0101vanas (smejas), vet\u0101rsta izdevumi, vesel\u012bba, nolauzti zobi un t\u0101 t\u0101l\u0101k. Visi prasa, k\u0101 lai paredz un zina, cik atlikt? Viens ir veids, ka tu paskaties pag\u0101tn\u0113, cik v\u0113sturiski ir kas noticis. V\u0113l\u0101k bud\u017eet\u0113\u0161anu piel\u0101go atbilsto\u0161i re\u0101lai situ\u0101cijai. Cilv\u0113ki nezin pat savus p\u0101rtikas izdevumus, daudz kas notiek uz dullo&#8230; Izdom\u0101, ka tu katru ned\u0113\u013cu t\u0113r\u0113si, piem\u0113ram, 90 eiro vai 150 eiro uz p\u0101rtiku. Skaties un piel\u0101gojies. Ja regul\u0101ri p\u0101rt\u0113r\u0113, tad piel\u0101go bud\u017eetu re\u0101lajai situ\u0101cijai. Ceturtais ir <strong>ien\u0101kumu saraksts<\/strong>. Tie ir garant\u0113tie ien\u0101kumi. Beig\u0101s paskatieties, kas san\u0101k, kad izdevumus saliek pret ie\u0146\u0113mumiem. Tur parasti visiem ir liel\u0101kie p\u0101rsteigumi, jo bie\u017ei vien cilv\u0113ki nesaprot, k\u0101 vi\u0146i ir l\u012bdz \u0161im dz\u012bvoju\u0161i un no kurienes nauda visu laiku ir uzradusies. \u0160\u0101di saliekot savu ikm\u0113ne\u0161a bud\u017eetu, tu saproti savu re\u0101lo situ\u0101ciju tam, k\u0101 tu dz\u012bvo un cik tu pelni. ja redzi, ka pelni krietni maz\u0101k, nek\u0101 izt\u0113r\u0113, s\u0101c dom\u0101t, kur t\u0113r\u0113 par daudz un no k\u0101 vari atteikties, lai tiktu uz priek\u0161u. ja ignor\u0113si to, viegl\u0101k no t\u0101 nevienam nepaliks. ja sak\u0101rtosi, tiks no\u0146emts stress no t\u0101.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h3>Rihards: Vai risin\u0101jums vienm\u0113r ir bijis vair\u0101k nopeln\u012bt\u0101s naudas?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong>\u00a0Pa\u0161\u0101 s\u0101kum\u0101, kad m\u0113s non\u0101c\u0101m pie t\u0101 un atd\u016br\u0101mies pie m\u016bsu par\u0101diem, kas pat nebija dikti lieli, tie bija k\u0101di 2,5 t\u016bksto\u0161i lati, kas bija m\u012bnus\u0101. Taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, kad saprat\u0101m, ka gribam tikt \u0101r\u0101, m\u0113s s\u0101k\u0101m dom\u0101t, ko varam dar\u012bt. Es p\u0101rdevu pussaremont\u0113to ma\u0161\u012bnu pa l\u0113to, bet m\u0113s ieguv\u0101m l\u012bdzek\u013cus, ko pielikt bud\u017eetam, s\u0101k\u0101m b\u0113rnus vad\u0101t uz b\u0113rnu d\u0101rziem ar velosip\u0113diem, lai ekonom\u0113tu uz degvielu. Sieva pamudin\u0101ja mani iet bild\u0113t k\u0101zas ar foto tehniku, kas man bija, bet kuru p\u0101rdot vairs nevar\u0113ja. Piepeln\u012bjos ar k\u0101zu bild\u0113\u0161anu. Dom\u0101j\u0101m vis kaut ko.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong>\u00a0Un \u0161is process, ko var saukt par m\u0101jsaimniec\u012bbas auditu ir \u013coti izaicino\u0161s p\u0101rim. Tad, kad tu saproti, ka ir kaut kas j\u0101maina, ne vienm\u0113r uzreiz s\u0101ksi divreiz vair\u0101k ar\u012b peln\u012bt. Ir j\u0101saprot, ko griezt nost un tas ir k\u0101 katalizators, jo tas par\u0101da kas katram ir svar\u012bgs un no k\u0101 ir gatavs katrs atteikties. Tur par\u0101d\u0101s \u0161\u012b kompromisu m\u0101ksla.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: K\u0101 jums ar to g\u0101ja?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Remzijam ir viens labs teiciens \u2013 p\u0101rdod visu pa labi un kreisi t\u0101, lai tavi b\u0113rni s\u0101k baid\u012bties, ka tik neb\u016bs n\u0101ko\u0161ie.. (smejas) M\u0113s daudz ko p\u0101rdev\u0101m. Tu s\u0101c izv\u0113rt\u0113t, kas ir patiesi svar\u012bgs un kam ir noz\u012bme. Ar\u012b p\u0101ru attiec\u012bb\u0101s izkristaliz\u0113jas, kas ir svar\u012bgs, piem\u0113ram, tavai sievai. Manai sievai bija svar\u012bgi, lai var aiziet pie friziera. Vienreiz pam\u0113\u0123in\u0101ja l\u0113t\u0101ku frizieri un tad es sapratu, ka bud\u017eet\u0101 tam ir j\u0101pieliek nauda (smejas) Caur t\u0101diem eksperimentiem ar\u012b non\u0101c\u0101m pie t\u0101, ko vajag un ko nevajag. T\u0101 ar\u012b tik\u0101m \u0101r\u0101 no saviem par\u0101diem.<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Var tikt \u0101r\u0101 ar\u012b no lieliem par\u0101diem? Jo apk\u0101rt gandr\u012bz visi dz\u012bvo uz par\u0101da \u0161odien.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Var! Viss ir \u013coti element\u0101ri.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> M\u0113s hipotek\u0101ro neskait\u0101m pie par\u0101diem, bet gan \u0101tros kred\u012btus, l\u012bzingus un citus.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Sist\u0113mas pirmais solis ir atlikt mazo av\u0101rijas fondu. Tas toreiz bija k\u0101di 700 eiro, \u0161odien tas var\u0113tu b\u016bt ap 1000 eiro. Tad, kad tu sper otru soli un s\u0101c atdot par\u0101dus, tu p\u0113c sist\u0113mas atdod no maz\u0101k\u0101 uz liel\u0101ko, lai sajustu \u0101tr\u0101k to uzvaras gar\u0161u. Tie\u0161i t\u0101 k\u0101rp\u012b\u0161an\u0101s \u0101r\u0101 no par\u0101diem ir atkar\u012bga no psiholo\u0123isk\u0101s notur\u012bbas. Daudzi izlai\u017e \u0161o pirmo soli un t\u0101 viet\u0101, lai atliktu mazo av\u0101rijas fondu, uzreiz \u0137eras pie par\u0101diem, bet tas ir \u013coti nepareizi. Bie\u017ei tie, kas t\u0101 dara, izg\u0101\u017eas, jo taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, kad s\u0101kam atdot par\u0101dus, tad, ja nobr\u016bk kaut kas un tev nav kaut maz\u0101kie l\u012bdzek\u013ci, ko mest taj\u0101 virzien\u0101, tu tiec izsists no slied\u0113m. Tas var tevi izmest no t\u0101 procesa \u0101r\u0101. Piem\u0113ram, nobr\u016bk ledusskapis, un tev ir no k\u0101 pa\u0146emt, lai to salabotu. Kam\u0113r vari, tikm\u0113r visu labo! Tu vari apst\u0101ties, jo esi izsists no slied\u0113m. Tas var notikt, ja izlaid to av\u0101rijas fonda izveido\u0161anu.<\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: J\u0101, tad ir viss k\u0101 melnaj\u0101 caurum\u0101, kur nav nek\u0101da emocion\u0101l\u0101 pienesuma, nav uzvaras gar\u0161as un v\u0113lmes iet t\u0101l\u0101k\u2026<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Viss process sast\u0101v no lab\u0101s un slikt\u0101s zi\u0146as. No tavas matem\u0101tikas un cipariem ir atkar\u012bgi tikai 15%, p\u0101r\u0113jais viss ir atkar\u012bgs no tevis pa\u0161a. T\u0101tad, viss liel\u0101kais ir no tevis atkar\u012bgs. T\u0101p\u0113c maz\u0101s uzvaras ir \u013coti svar\u012bgas.<\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: Cik j\u016bs ilgi jau dz\u012bvojat finansi\u0101l\u0101 br\u012bv\u012bb\u0101 un stabilit\u0101t\u0113?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Tas intens\u012bv\u0101kais posms aiz\u0146\u0113ma asto\u0146us m\u0113ne\u0161us. Tas bija l\u012bdz tam, kad tik\u0101m l\u012bdz liel\u0101 av\u0101rijas fonda kr\u0101\u0161anai. To gan m\u0113s kr\u0101j\u0101m k\u0101dus divarpus gadus.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Lielais av\u0101rijas fonds ir se\u0161u m\u0113ne\u0161u izdevumi. Nevis algas, bet, cik ir nepiecie\u0161ams, lai izdz\u012bvotu se\u0161us m\u0113ne\u0161us.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Tur doma ir, ja pat abi paliekat bez darba, pusgads jums ir dots, lai var\u0113tu atj\u0113gties no \u0161oka un izdom\u0101t, k\u0101 dz\u012bvot t\u0101l\u0101k. Kaut vai s\u0113sties uz velosip\u0113da un aizbraukt l\u012bdz Anglijas zeme\u0146u laukiem un tur ko nopeln\u012bt. Tad, kad cilv\u0113ki ir sa\u0146\u0113mu\u0161ies kred\u012btus un l\u012bzingus un pat ja viens no abiem paliek bez darba, jau tad tas ir pamat\u012bgs sitiens. Tad run\u0101\u0161anu par savstarp\u0113j\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m un to vesel\u012bgumu var aizmirst. Tur b\u016bs bailes, panika un hist\u0113rija, jo var nezin\u0101t, ko dar\u012bt un kur\u0101 virzien\u0101 mesties un k\u0101 risin\u0101t. Un ja v\u0113l pakaus\u012b el\u0161 par\u0101du piedzin\u0113ji\u2026 Atsl\u0113dzas tev jebkas, kas ir uz rado\u0161umu dots. Tad, kad cilv\u0113ks ir stres\u0101, darbojas tikai dz\u012bvnieciskais smadze\u0146u kodols <em>(\u0137irzakas smadzene)<\/em>, kas atbild tikai par to, vai kauties vai b\u0113gt \u2026\u00a0Rado\u0161\u0101 da\u013ca atsl\u0113dzas un tad m\u0113s bie\u017ei pie\u0146emam l\u0113mumus, ko v\u0113l\u0101k no\u017e\u0113lojam.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Kad mums bija sakr\u0101ts mazais av\u0101rijas fonds, tad bud\u017eet\u0101, kr\u0101jot lielo, m\u0113s iek\u013c\u0101v\u0101m poz\u012bciju \u201cnotriecam\u0101 nauda\u201d. To katrs dr\u012bkst\u0113ja izt\u0113r\u0113t bez \u201cno questions ask\u201d.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> L\u012bdz tam bija tikai \u2013 pa\u0113st un ap\u0123\u0113rbties\u2026bet visp\u0101r bija \u2013 velc mugur\u0101 to, kas ir&#8230; <em>(smejas)<\/em> Bija tikai pamatvajadz\u012bbas! Bet to asto\u0146u m\u0113ne\u0161u laik\u0101 mums bija vis\u0101di. K\u0101 m\u0113s uz randi\u0146iem g\u0101j\u0101m\u2026mums bija desmit lati un dom\u0101j\u0101m, ko nu varam? Es iebraucu Rimi, nopirku liel\u0101s garneles, Ingus to, kas vi\u0146am \u013coti gar\u0161o un brauc\u0101m m\u0101j\u0101s. Mums bija t\u0101ds randi\u0146\u0161, ka \u201cnu tikai\u201d <em>(smejas)<\/em>!<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Jums aug divi b\u0113rni, vai j\u016bs ar\u012b vi\u0146us m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t ievirz\u012bt \u0161ajos finan\u0161u jaut\u0101jumos kaut k\u0101?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> M\u0113s neesam b\u0113rnu audzin\u0101\u0161anas guru un noteikti tas, k\u0101 m\u0113s dar\u0101m, nav vispareiz\u0101kais. Varam tikai padal\u012bties ar to, k\u0101 dar\u0101m. M\u016bsu \u0123imen\u0113 b\u0113rniem nav kabatas nauda, bet vi\u0146iem ir alga! To vi\u0146i sa\u0146em par savu izdar\u012bto darbu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Divas da\u017e\u0101das lietas ir darbi un pien\u0101kumi. Istabas t\u012br\u012b\u0161ana un taml\u012bdz\u012bgi \u2013 tas ir pien\u0101kums. Darbs ir tas, kas ir visu lab\u0101.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> B\u0113rns augot nekur nevar iem\u0101c\u012bties darba un naudas attiec\u012bbas. Skol\u0101 ar\u012b to nem\u0101ca. Nav modelis, kur vi\u0146\u0161 var tren\u0113ties. T\u0101p\u0113c m\u0113s to m\u0113\u0123in\u0101m rad\u012bt m\u0101j\u0101s. T\u0101 vi\u0146\u0161 sa\u0146em naudu, ko vi\u0146\u0161 var t\u0113r\u0113t. Ja gribi sald\u0113jumu nopirkt, nopelni vispirms! Darbu saraksts st\u0101v pie ledusskapja. Nauda visu laiku ir pieejama, tikai- caur darbu!<\/p>\n<h3>Rihards: Esmu vien\u0101 semin\u0101r\u0101 dzird\u0113jis domu, ka nauda ir person\u012bbas pastiprin\u0101jums. Ko j\u016bs varat past\u0101st\u012bt par saviem nov\u0113rojumiem attiec\u012bb\u0101 vienam pret otru j\u016bsu finansi\u0101lajos posmos. Kas izmain\u012bj\u0101s j\u016bsos k\u0101 person\u012bb\u0101s?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> Es pieredz\u0113ju to, ka mana sieva \u013coti pieauga. Jo tas bija milz\u012bgs darbs ar sevi, savu lepnumu. Daudz mazu lietu pa to sit. Es sajutos \u0101rk\u0101rt\u012bgi lepns ar savu sievu vienreiz, kad vi\u0146a bija ar sav\u0101m draudzen\u0113m aizg\u0101jusi uz restor\u0101nu ar b\u0113rniem. Mums bija paredz\u0113ts konkr\u0113ts bud\u017eets t\u0101diem izg\u0101jieniem, bet tur tas saldais izr\u0101d\u012bj\u0101s tik d\u0101rgs! Sieva b\u0113rniem teica, ka aizies p\u0113c tam uz veikalu un nopirks to pa\u0161u, tikai krietni l\u0113t\u0101k, jo mums bud\u017eet\u0101 \u0161obr\u012bd t\u0101das naudas nav. Tas bija taj\u0101 intens\u012bvaj\u0101 posm\u0101, kur dom\u0101j\u0101m, par katru izdoto naudi\u0146u. Vi\u0146as draudzenes pateica, ka Liene ir nok\u013cuvusi Buk\u0161u koncentr\u0101cijas nometn\u0113 un met\u0101s vi\u0146u gl\u0101bt. Tom\u0113r nesaprata vi\u0146as b\u016btisk\u0101ko \u2013 nevis, ka m\u0113s nevaram, bet ka mums ir m\u0113r\u0137is cits. Un ka naudas nevis nav, bet nav tie\u0161i tam atv\u0113l\u0113ta. To notur\u0113t ir liels sasniegums! Pirms tam bija epizode, kur m\u0113s septi\u0146u latu d\u0113\u013c aizg\u0101j\u0101m pie terapeita L\u012bduma atkal (smejas)!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Un samaks\u0101j\u0101m vi\u0146am 35 \u2026 <em>(smejas)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ingus:<\/strong> M\u0113s bij\u0101m burtiski aps\u0113du\u0161ies un apstiprin\u0101ju\u0161i bud\u017eetu, pl\u0101noj\u0101m to kop\u0101. Cipargalva var sast\u0101d\u012bt, bet vi\u0146am oblig\u0101ti j\u0101\u013cauj br\u012bvajam garam ko pamain\u012bt. Tad sp\u013cauj sauj\u0101 un esam visu sarun\u0101ju\u0161i, k\u0101 b\u016bs. Nepag\u0101ja ne tr\u012bs dienas, vi\u0146a ierad\u0101s m\u0101j\u0101s ar jaunu kleiti\u0146u\u2026 pa l\u0113to ta\u010du! Tas bija k\u0101 milz\u012bgs cirvis man mugur\u0101, jo m\u0113s tik tikko visu bij\u0101m sarun\u0101ju\u0161i. Es teicu, viss, ejam pie terapeita!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Un es teicu pret\u012b \u2013 tas viss pa septi\u0146iem eiro?! Kas tu mani nem\u012bli? Tev \u017e\u0113l \u0161os septi\u0146us eiro?! Konflikts gatavs! Un mums atkal vajadz\u0113ja izt\u012br\u012bt komunik\u0101cijas trubas<em> (smejas).<\/em> Tik gludi jau mums neg\u0101ja. Ingum bija daudz svar\u012bg\u0101k pietur\u0113ties pie t\u0101 pl\u0101na prec\u012bzi l\u012bdz milimetram. Man atkal, j\u0101, j\u0101, b\u016bs jau labi, ja daudz maz pietur\u0113simies. Un es gribu kleitu!<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Meitene pie kleitas tika, ko vari past\u0101st\u012bt par savu puisi \u0161aj\u0101 izlau\u0161an\u0101s posm\u0101?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Tas ir kaut kas liels un pamat\u012bgs, uz ko var pa\u013cauties. Es jau vienm\u0113r piekr\u012btu visam, ko vi\u0146\u0161 saka, tik reiz\u0113m pietur\u0113ties pie t\u0101 nav tik viegli\u2026Ingus ir t\u0101ds pret straumi g\u0101j\u0113js. Vi\u0146am ir vienalga, ko citi par to saka. Tur ir sp\u0113ks vajadz\u012bgs liels!<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: K\u0101d\u0101 laul\u012bbas punkt\u0101 j\u016bs esat \u0161obr\u012bd?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Liene:<\/strong> Protams, var\u0113tu dar\u012bt vair\u0101k. Esam biju\u0161i vis\u0101dos semin\u0101ros, zin\u0101m, k\u0101 vajag dar\u012bt <em>(smejas)<\/em> un lab\u0101 zi\u0146a ir, ka b\u0113rni jau ir tik lieli, ka varam ar\u012b aizlaist uz k\u0101du randi\u0146u pa nakti kaut kur. 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