{"id":3401,"date":"2023-02-01T09:17:11","date_gmt":"2023-02-01T07:17:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/?p=3401"},"modified":"2023-03-02T12:52:40","modified_gmt":"2023-03-02T10:52:40","slug":"krize-pec-skirsanas-un-parads-120-000-e-sakums-laulibai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/krize-pec-skirsanas-un-parads-120-000-e-sakums-laulibai\/","title":{"rendered":"Kr\u012bze p\u0113c \u0161\u0137ir\u0161an\u0101s un par\u0101ds 120 000 \u20ac. S\u0101kums laul\u012bbai?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-bg-parallax\" data-bg-align=\"center center\" data-direction=\"up\" data-mute=\"false\" data-opacity=\"100\" data-velocity=\"-0.2\" data-mobile-enabled=\"false\" data-break_parents=\"0\" data-bg-image=\"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gatis-rutins-liga-rutina-krize-lauliba-1800-scaled.jpg\" data-bg-repeat=\"false\" ><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container fusion-parallax-up nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-sizes-top:0px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:0px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:200px;--awb-padding-bottom:80px;--awb-background-image:url(&quot;https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/gatis-rutins-liga-rutina-krize-lauliba-1800-scaled.jpg&quot;);--awb-background-size:cover;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:calc( 1170px + 0px );margin-left: calc(-0px \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-0px \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-padding-right:11%;--awb-padding-left:11%;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:0px;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:0px;--awb-spacing-left-medium:0px;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:0px;--awb-spacing-left-small:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><h2 style=\"text-align: center; color: #fff;\">KR\u012aZE P\u0112C \u0160\u0136IR\u0160AN\u0100S UN 120 000 \u20ac PAR\u0100DS<\/h2>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:0px;margin-bottom:40px;width:100%;max-width:200px;\"><div class=\"fusion-separator-border sep-single sep-solid\" style=\"--awb-height:20px;--awb-amount:20px;--awb-sep-color:#f6861f;border-color:#f6861f;border-top-width:3px;\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p style=\"text-align: center; font-size: 24px; color: #fff; font-weight: 300;\">Laul\u012bbas pieredz\u0113 dal\u0101s\u00a0Gatis un L\u012bga R\u016bti\u0146i<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-background-position:left top;--awb-border-sizes-top:0px;--awb-border-sizes-bottom:0px;--awb-border-sizes-left:0px;--awb-border-sizes-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:35px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1216.8px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:66.666666666667%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:2.88%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:2.88%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><h5><strong>Nekustamo \u012bpa\u0161umu speci\u0101liste L\u012bga pirms vair\u0101k nek\u0101 desmit gadiem bija palikusi viena p\u0113c \u0161\u0137irtas laul\u012bbas un ar mazu meiti\u0146u uz rok\u0101m. Apjukums, s\u0101pes un netic\u012bba n\u0101kotnei. Tom\u0113r taj\u0101 vieta un noz\u012bm\u012bga loma atrad\u0101s uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113jam Gatim R\u016bti\u0146am. \u0160obr\u012bd R\u016bti\u0146u \u0123imene audzina 3 b\u0113rnus, ir tiku\u0161i p\u0101ri milzu finansi\u0101lai kr\u012bzei un ir gatavi dal\u012bties sav\u0101 st\u0101st\u0101. Sarun\u0101jas Rihards un Viktorija Kostigovi, aizs\u0101kot 12 sarunu ciklu, kur b\u016bs atkl\u0101tas laul\u0101to p\u0101ru pieredzes par piedz\u012bvotaj\u0101m kr\u012bz\u0113m laul\u012bb\u0101 un atrastajiem risin\u0101jumiem.\u00a0<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-video fusion-youtube\" style=\"--awb-max-width:800px;--awb-max-height:450px;--awb-align-self:center;--awb-width:100%;\"><div class=\"video-shortcode\"><div class=\"fluid-width-video-wrapper\" style=\"padding-top:56.25%;\" ><iframe title=\"YouTube video player 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Elup150E3UI?wmode=transparent&autoplay=0&amp;rel=0\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" allowfullscreen allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-separator fusion-full-width-sep\" style=\"align-self: center;margin-left: auto;margin-right: auto;margin-top:20px;margin-bottom:20px;width:100%;\"><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\"><p><iframe src=\"https:\/\/anchor.fm\/lauliba\/embed\/episodes\/Krze-pc-irans-un-120-000--pards--Skums-laulbai---Gatis-un-Lga-Rtii-e1ubnas\" width=\"400px\" height=\"102px\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3><\/h3>\n<h3>Rihards: L\u012bga, tev \u0161\u012b ir otr\u0101 laul\u012bba, un Gatim, apprecoties bija j\u0101uz\u0146emas atbild\u012bba ne tikai par tevi k\u0101 sievu, bet ar\u012b par tavu meitu no iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m. Es esmu sastapis v\u012brie\u0161us, kuri, iesaistoties attiec\u012bb\u0101s konkr\u0113ti pasaka \u2013 n\u0113, b\u0113rns no iepriek\u0161\u0113j\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m \u2013 t\u0101 ir sarkan\u0101 l\u012bnija. Jaut\u0101jums tev, Gati, vai tas tev rais\u012bja k\u0101das p\u0101rdomas?\u00a0<em>\u00a0<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Gatis:<\/strong>\u00a0T\u0101 atbilde ir vienk\u0101r\u0161a, jo man L\u012bga rikt\u012bgi patika. Tad, kad tev cilv\u0113ks \u013coti pat\u012bk, tad viss p\u0101r\u0113jais ir mazsvar\u012bgs. Un t\u0101 ar\u012b ir mana atbilde Tev un visiem p\u0101r\u0113jiem, kas, varb\u016bt, uztraucas, k\u0101 ir sadz\u012bvot ar sievietes meitu no pirmaj\u0101m attiec\u012bb\u0101m \u2013 ir OK! Tie\u0161\u0101m ir OK un mums ir rikt\u012bgi paveicies, mums ir \u013coti labas attiec\u012bbas ar Em\u012bliju. Un tie\u0161\u0101m, es nevien\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b neesmu no\u017e\u0113lojis, ka es izv\u0113l\u0113jos \u0161o ce\u013cu.<\/p>\n<h3>Ko Tu pateici L\u012bgai, ka vi\u0146a Tev notic\u0113ja?<\/h3>\n<p>Es pat nezinu. Tas laikam L\u012bgai j\u0101jaut\u0101, ko es pateicu, ka vi\u0146a notic\u0113ja.<\/p>\n<p><strong>L\u012bga:<\/strong>\u00a0Gatis neteica. Vi\u0146\u0161 r\u012bkoj\u0101s. T\u0101 bija at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba. J\u0101, t\u0101s nebija manas pirm\u0101s attiec\u012bbas. Un ir at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba, vai tu piedz\u012bvo to, ka k\u0101ds tikai run\u0101 par to, ka tu pat\u012bc vai ar\u012b r\u012bkojas. Sieviet\u0113m ir \u013coti svar\u012bgi redz\u0113t r\u012bc\u012bbu no v\u012brie\u0161a, nevis tikai to, ka vi\u0146\u0161 skaisti run\u0101. Gatis bija \u013coti neatlaid\u012bgs. Es nesl\u0113p\u0161u, ka m\u0113s satik\u0101mies tad, kad es biju, var teikt, dz\u012bves zem\u0101kaj\u0101 emocion\u0101laj\u0101 punkt\u0101. Mana meiti\u0146a bija maza. Es biju iz\u0161\u0137\u012brusies no pirm\u0101s laul\u012bbas. Sirds bija salauzta un es pati \u2013 nelaim\u012bga. Tas ir br\u012bdis, kad tu ar\u012b t\u012bri sievi\u0161\u0137\u012bgi j\u016bties k\u0101 t\u0101ds izbr\u0101\u0137\u0113ts variants, ka tu esi t\u0101ds br\u0101\u0137is dz\u012bv\u0113. M\u0113s katra sap\u0146ojam to balto kleitu uzvilkt tikai vienu reizi un uz visiem laikiem. Man\u0101 dzimt\u0101, diem\u017e\u0113l, nav st\u0101stu, kur b\u016btu ilga, laim\u012bga laul\u012bba diviem cilv\u0113kiem uz visu m\u016b\u017eu. Es kaut k\u0101 biju iedom\u0101jusies, ka b\u016b\u0161u t\u0101 pirm\u0101, kas to izdar\u012bs m\u016bsu dzimt\u0101, un tad, kad man tas neizdev\u0101s, vil\u0161an\u0101s bija dubultliela. Pirmk\u0101rt, pa\u0161ai par sevi, otr\u0101m k\u0101rt\u0101m, man lik\u0101s, ka es visu dzimtu esmu piev\u012blusi, jo ar\u012b man tas neizdev\u0101s. Tai br\u012bd\u012b es pat diezgan atkl\u0101ti laikam Gatim teicu \u2013 tev mani nevajag! Es t\u0101 ar\u012b teicu \u2013 es esmu \u0161\u0137\u012brusies, man ir meiti\u0146a, tev laul\u012bba nav bijusi, b\u0113rni nav biju\u0161i, tev manis nevajag\u2026<\/p>\n<h3>Viktorija: Tu sevi piln\u012bb\u0101 nesaredz\u0113ji k\u0101 k\u0101du v\u0113rt\u012bbu?<\/h3>\n<p>Es visp\u0101r tai br\u012bd\u012b m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ju sevi salikt pa gabali\u0146iem kop\u0101. Man patika Gata atbilde, kad vi\u0146\u0161 t\u0101 diezgan skarbi un v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u012bgi man pateica \u2013 varb\u016bt es pats zinu, ko man vajag?! Tad man lik\u0101s- \u0101, OK, vi\u0146am ir viedoklis! Tie toreiz bija vis\u0101di, t\u0101di mazi uzman\u012bbas apliecin\u0101jumi, jo s\u0101kum\u0101 tie\u0161\u0101m es biju \u013coti noraido\u0161a. Vi\u0146\u0161 leca p\u0101ri \u017eogam, t\u012br\u012bja man sniegu. Taj\u0101 gad\u0101 bija milz\u012bgs sniegs. Em\u012blijai bija divi ar pusi gadi un kad vi\u0146a g\u0101ja pa taci\u0146u, sniegs ab\u0101s pus\u0113s bija tik augsts, ka vi\u0146u nevar\u0113ja redz\u0113t no malas. Es atn\u0101cu m\u0101j\u0101s un atkal man t\u012brs plac\u012btis un es sapratu, kur\u0161 to ir izdar\u012bjis. Vai, piem\u0113ram, no r\u012bta braucot, vedot Em\u012bliju uz d\u0101rzi\u0146u, es braucu pa savu celi\u0146u un ce\u013ca gal\u0101 st\u0101v Gatis pret\u0113j\u0101 virzien\u0101 un pasniedz man kafiju un maiz\u012btes, jo vi\u0146\u0161 zin, ka es no r\u012bta nepasp\u0113ju brokastis pa\u0113st. Tie bija t\u0101di mazie mirk\u013ci, kas man lika jaut\u0101t \u2013 kas tu esi?<\/p>\n<h3>Gatis tev par\u0101d\u012bja, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ne tikai k\u0101 v\u012brietis run\u0101, bet ar\u012b dara, tom\u0113r tu taj\u0101 proces\u0101 vi\u0146u m\u0113\u0123in\u0101ji p\u0101rliecin\u0101t, ka tu vi\u0146am neesi vajadz\u012bga?<\/h3>\n<p>J\u0101!<\/p>\n<h3>Un vi\u0146\u0161 to apg\u0101za ar savu stingr\u012bbu un neatlaid\u012bbu? Vai var teikt, ka vi\u0146\u0161 tev dzin\u0101s paka\u013c ar \u0161o neatlaid\u012bbu?<\/h3>\n<p>Vi\u0146\u0161 t\u0101d\u0101 r\u016bpju veid\u0101 dzin\u0101s man paka\u013c. Tie\u0161i aiz t\u0101s neatlaid\u012bbas bija t\u0101 saj\u016bta, ka, tie\u0161\u0101m, es laikam vi\u0146am pat\u012bku, vi\u0146am tie\u0161\u0101m mani vajag, vi\u0146am MANI vajag. Es varu b\u016bt Dievam pateic\u012bga, ka vi\u0146\u0161 s\u016bt\u012bja Gati man taj\u0101 b\u0113d\u012bgaj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, jo tas man pal\u012bdz\u0113ja atg\u016bt pa\u0161apzi\u0146u un atg\u016bt tic\u012bbu tam, ka es ar visu savu pieredzi tom\u0113r esmu v\u0113rt\u012bba.<\/p>\n<h3>Vai taj\u0101 br\u012bdi, kad Tev juka un bruka attiec\u012bbas, nen\u0101ca pr\u0101t\u0101 domas, ka, varb\u016bt, tu nekad vair\u0101k neapprec\u0113sies otro reizi?<\/h3>\n<p>Vis\u0101das domas n\u0101ca, jo tas bija t\u0101ds izmisums un tas bija tie\u0161\u0101m \u013coti, \u013coti gr\u016bts laiks. Tagad ir pag\u0101ju\u0161i desmit gadi, kop\u0161 m\u0113s esam prec\u0113ju\u0161ies. Un tikai ar laiku tu saproti, k\u0101p\u0113c kaut k\u0101das lietas tav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 notiek. Mums ar\u012b \u0161obr\u012bd ir \u013coti labas attiec\u012bbas ar Em\u012blijas t\u0113ti un vi\u0146a \u0123imeni. Vi\u0146\u0161 ar\u012b ir otrreiz prec\u0113jies. Atceros, ka vien\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, kad Em\u012blija laikam neklaus\u012bja vai nedar\u012bja k\u0101 vajadz\u0113ja, Gatis man jaut\u0101ja, ko Tu gribi, k\u0101 lai es tagad r\u012bkojos? Man bija \u013coti skaidra atbilde. Es teicu \u2013 r\u012bkojies t\u0101, k\u0101 tu r\u012bkotos, ja vi\u0146a patie\u0161\u0101m b\u016btu tava meita, jo es tie\u0161i t\u0101 ar\u012b grib\u0113ju.<\/p>\n<h3>T\u0101tad jums ar Em\u012blijas t\u0113ti, kas ir L\u012bgas biju\u0161ais v\u012brs, ir labas attiec\u012bbas. K\u0101 tas str\u0101d\u0101? Es pats esmu uzaudzis \u0161\u0101d\u0101 Em\u012blijas viet\u0101, tur pieaugu\u0161o starp\u0101 redz\u0113ju pavisam citas attiec\u012bbas bez \u0161\u0101das sadarb\u012bbas. Tas, ko st\u0101st\u0101t, p\u0101rsteidza mani pozit\u012bv\u0101 noz\u012bm\u0113. K\u0101 Tev, Gati, k\u0101 v\u012brietim izdev\u0101s ar vi\u0146u vienoties par \u0161\u012bm robe\u017e\u0101m?<\/h3>\n<p>T\u0101s robe\u017eas laika gait\u0101 izkristaliz\u0113j\u0101s, jo\u00a0paties\u012bb\u0101 jau vajag tikai da\u017eas lietas, lai tas viss nostr\u0101d\u0101tu. Vajag da\u017eus norm\u0101lus cilv\u0113kus, un m\u0113s visi tr\u012bs \u0161aj\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101 bij\u0101m norm\u0101li. Vajag piedot viens otram un vajag pie\u0146emt. Neviens jau nav bez gr\u0113ka un neviens nav pasaul\u0113 t\u0101ds, kur\u0161 nav k\u013c\u016bd\u012bjies. M\u0113s jau gadiem varam norm\u0101li s\u0113d\u0113t pie viena galda un svin\u0113t Em\u012blijai dzim\u0161anas dienas, v\u0101rda dienas un citus sv\u0113tkus. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i vajag norm\u0101lus cilv\u0113kus tan\u012b vis\u0101.<\/p>\n<h3>Izklaus\u0101s, ka neizk\u0101v\u0101ties pa ce\u013cam nekur?<\/h3>\n<p>M\u0113s neizk\u0101v\u0101mies. Mums vienu reizi gan bija t\u0101da, varb\u016bt, stipr\u0101ka v\u0101rdu p\u0101rmai\u0146a. Vi\u0146\u0161 teica \u2013 paej mali\u0146\u0101, es teicu \u2013 es neie\u0161u mali\u0146\u0101. Un viss! T\u0101da ir \u012bs\u0101 versija, toreiz ar to ar\u012b viss tika noskaidrots.<\/p>\n<h3>Tas bija jaut\u0101jum\u0101 par meitas audzin\u0101\u0161anu?<\/h3>\n<p>N\u0113, tas bija tad, kad vi\u0146\u0161 grib\u0113ja atgriezties, n\u0101kt atpaka\u013c blakus L\u012bgai. Es teicu \u2013 n\u0113, jo es te esmu! M\u0113s bij\u0101m tiko s\u0101ku\u0161i draudz\u0113ties. Tas bija pirmaj\u0101s ned\u0113\u013c\u0101s.<\/p>\n<h3>Vai tu tic\u0113ji tam, ka L\u012bga \u0101tri no t\u0101 salauzt\u0101 trauka, k\u0101du tu vi\u0146u iepazini, kad to kafiju nesi, \u0101tri atplauks? Vai Tu to redz\u0113ji, ka tas ac\u012bmredzami notiek ar tevi esot kop\u0101?<\/h3>\n<p>Man tas bija svar\u012bgi, bet es vienk\u0101r\u0161i dar\u012bju savu darbu. Man t\u0101 meitene patika un es dar\u012bju to, ko taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b uzskat\u012bju par vajadz\u012bgu \u2013 nesu kafiju, t\u012br\u012bju sniegu, r\u016bp\u0113jos par Em\u012bliju, k\u0101 es m\u0101c\u0113ju, cik es var\u0113ju un t\u0101 ar\u012b t\u0101 sniega bumba s\u0101ka l\u0113n\u0101m velties. Vai vi\u0146ai bija viegli atv\u0113rties, es nezinu, bet ceru, ka bija, redzot to, k\u0101 es r\u016bp\u0113jos. Tas bija vienk\u0101r\u0161i no t\u012bras sirds.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-5\"><h3>Reiz dzird\u0113j\u0101m fr\u0101zi, ka sievietei daudz lab\u0101k ir pa\u0161pietiekams v\u012brietis, jo tad vi\u0146am ir sievietei ko dot. Tie\u0161i Gatis izklaus\u0101s taj\u0101 dz\u012bves posm\u0101 k\u0101 gana pa\u0161pietiekams un ka\u00a0 nebija nevienam nekas j\u0101pier\u0101da.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>L\u012bga:<\/strong>\u00a0Tu \u013coti pareizu niansi esi paman\u012bjis un man tai ir izskaidrojums. Vismaz no t\u0101s savas dz\u012bves pieredzes, ko es pati esmu pieredz\u0113jusi. Nesaku, ka tas ir simtprocentu gad\u012bjumos, bet ir milz\u012bga at\u0161\u0137ir\u012bba un es to j\u016btu \u2013 vai v\u012brietis ir audzis destrukt\u012bv\u0101 \u0123imen\u0113, kur vec\u0101ki ir biju\u0161i \u0161\u0137\u012bru\u0161ies, vai audzis \u0123imen\u0113, kur mamma un t\u0113tis ir kop\u0101.<\/p>\n<h3>To var tik \u013coti just?<\/h3>\n<p>Es to sajutu, jo Gatis man bija pirm\u0101s attiec\u012bbas, kur\u0101s v\u012brietim mamma un t\u0113tis ir kop\u0101. Un joproj\u0101m ir, paldies Dievam! Tas ir kaut kas, ko nevaru racion\u0101li izskaidrot. Vienk\u0101r\u0161i s\u0101c dom\u0101t \u2013 k\u0101p\u0113c tam v\u012brietim vai sievietei kaut kas ir cit\u0101d\u0101ks. Un nevar saprast \u2013 kas! V\u0101rdos to nevar noformul\u0113t. Tikai beig\u0101s saproti, ka vi\u0146am ta\u010du ir abi vec\u0101ki, un te apliecin\u0101s, cik tas paties\u012bb\u0101 ir svar\u012bgi. Man mamma ir \u0161\u0137\u012brusies, man\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113 nebija ar\u012b \u0161\u012b mode\u013ca, ka tu satiec pirmo, \u012bsto, vien\u012bgo un nodz\u012bvo m\u016b\u017eu laim\u012bgi. Gat\u012b bija \u0161is, ka nevar\u0113ju saprast, kas tas t\u0101ds ir, ar ko vi\u0146\u0161 n\u0101k. Es jutu, ka vi\u0146\u0161 ir cit\u0101d\u0101ks, lai ar\u012b s\u0101kum\u0101 es biju aizdomu pilna. Man bija zudusi uztic\u012bba pret pasauli, pret v\u012brie\u0161iem.<\/p>\n<h3>Vai tu esi piefiks\u0113jusi to mirkli, kad \u0161is aizdomu pl\u012bvurs vairs nebija?<\/h3>\n<p>Teik\u0161u god\u012bgi, es ar\u012b Gatim to nekad v\u0113l neesmu teikusi. Es \u013coti spilgti atceros mirkli, kad m\u0113s s\u0113d\u0113j\u0101m p\u0113c laul\u012bbu ceremonijas ma\u0161\u012bn\u0101 un ved\u0113ji m\u016bs veda uz \u013coti skaistu vietu, uz pikniku me\u017e\u0101. Es atceros, k\u0101 es ar sevi iek\u0161\u0113ji v\u0113l diskut\u0113ju, ka es tik \u013coti gribu notic\u0113t, ka daru pareizi. Ne t\u0101p\u0113c, ka vi\u0146\u0161 mani b\u016btu piev\u012blis un ne t\u0101p\u0113c, ka es vi\u0146am netic\u0113tu, bet d\u0113\u013c savas s\u0101p\u012bg\u0101s pieredzes.\u00a0<strong>Man bija tikai viena v\u0113lme, lai tas \u0161oreiz ir cit\u0101d\u0101k!<\/strong>\u00a0Pat v\u0113l taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b, jo tam ir vajadz\u012bgs laiks. Un, protams, ejot gadiem, da\u017e\u0101d\u0101s situ\u0101cij\u0101s, tad ir sp\u0113k\u0101 tas teiciens \u2013 es tev ticu tik ilgi, kam\u0113r tu man nepier\u0101di pret\u0113jo.<\/p>\n<h3>Vai tev, L\u012bga, apk\u0101rt bija cilv\u0113ki, kas atbalst\u012bja \u0161aj\u0101 l\u0113mum\u0101 vai tie\u0161i otr\u0101di \u2013 nedeva iedro\u0161in\u0101jumu?<\/h3>\n<p>Bija da\u017e\u0101di. Ar\u012b no \u013coti tuviem cilv\u0113kiem bija da\u017e\u0101das attieksmes. Tom\u0113r laikam mans \u201cnejaukais\u201d raksturs \u2013 kad man kaut ko \u013coti grib\u0101s un kad k\u0101ds saka, ka to nevar, man to gribas v\u0113l vair\u0101k, jo gribas pier\u0101d\u012bt pret\u0113jo. T\u0101p\u0113c es dar\u012bju to, kas man j\u0101dara un kas man lik\u0101s, ka man j\u0101dara. Paldies Dievam, izr\u0101d\u012bj\u0101s pareizi!<\/p>\n<h3>Gati, vai ar\u012b tu izjuti \u0161o l\u012bdz galam neuztic\u0113\u0161anos un aizdomas?<\/h3>\n<p>N\u0113, vair\u0101k bija t\u0101ds iek\u0161\u0113js \u2018\u2019cepiens\u2019\u2019, k\u0101 par vi\u0146\u0101m ab\u0101m par\u016bp\u0113ties. Tad, kad m\u0113s satik\u0101mies un s\u0101k\u0101m draudz\u0113ties, es biju pliks k\u0101 bazn\u012bcas \u017eurka. Ko par mums m\u012bl jokot \u2013 un \u013coti labs joks \u2013 L\u012bgai nekad nevar\u0113s p\u0101rmest, ka vi\u0146a mani apprec\u0113ja d\u0113\u013c naudas. Visu, ko esam sasniegu\u0161i, m\u0113s esam sasniegu\u0161i kop\u0101 un esam dar\u012bju\u0161i \u013coti daudz lietas kop\u0101 \u2013 m\u0101c\u012bju\u0161ies, stud\u0113ju\u0161i, tais\u012bju\u0161i biznesu.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Tas nenoz\u012bm\u0113 ka, ja es eju \u0101r\u0101 darb\u0101 un vi\u0146a paliek m\u0101j\u0101s ar b\u0113rniem, ka vi\u0146ai ir maz\u0101ka loma. Es vienm\u0113r saku, ka vi\u0146as loma un visp\u0101r sievietes loma \u0123imen\u0113 ir \u013coti svar\u012bga. Jo, ja vi\u0146a nevar\u0113tu pieskat\u012bt m\u0101ju un b\u0113rnus, par\u016bp\u0113ties par m\u0101jas liet\u0101m, tad es nevar\u0113tu iet \u0101r\u0101 un c\u012bn\u012bties ar briesmo\u0146iem darba lauk\u0101. (Gatis R\u016bti\u0146\u0161)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Tas ir bijis t\u0101ds komandas darbs. Un, j\u0101, no pa\u0161a ies\u0101kuma, visliel\u0101k\u0101s \u0161aubas man bija, k\u0101 es var\u0113\u0161u tikt gal\u0101 un par\u016bp\u0113ties?<\/p>\n<p><strong>L\u012bga:<\/strong>\u00a0Un vi\u0146\u0161 k\u013cuva ne tikai par v\u012bru, bet uzreiz par t\u0113ti! V\u0113l viena lieta, ko es gribu atz\u012bm\u0113t, ka \u013coti b\u016btiski man\u0101 gad\u012bjum\u0101, bija atz\u012bt ar\u012b savas k\u013c\u016bdas pa\u0161ai pret sevi. T\u0101p\u0113c v\u0101rds \u2018\u2019attiec\u012bbas\u2019\u2019 ir daudzskaitl\u012b. Vecais, labais teiciens, ka pagale nedeg viena un t\u0101 tas ir, jo mums ir visviegl\u0101k vainot k\u0101du citu. Visviegl\u0101k ir norakst\u012bt k\u0101das lietas uz citu, bet attiec\u012bb\u0101s m\u0113s esam l\u012bdzvain\u012bgi. Nesl\u0113p\u0161u, ka attiec\u012bbu s\u0101kum\u0101 ar\u012b ar Gati, jutu, ka es eju to pa\u0161u ce\u013cu, kur\u0161 ved ne tur, kur es gribu b\u016bt. Man bija vajadz\u012bgs laiks, pirmk\u0101rt, atz\u012bt savas k\u013c\u016bdas taj\u0101 vis\u0101, k\u0101p\u0113c t\u0101 ir noticis, uz\u0146emties atbild\u012bbu un pateikt, j\u0101, es ar\u012b esmu pie kaut k\u0101 vain\u012bga. Tad saprast, ko es varu dar\u012bt cit\u0101d\u0101k, lai rezult\u0101ts b\u016btu cits. T\u0101p\u0113c ka vien\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b jut\u0101m, ka tas t\u016bl\u012bt s\u0101ks iet taj\u0101 pa\u0161\u0101 man\u0101 vecaj\u0101 virzien\u0101. Viena no liet\u0101m, kas m\u016bsu gad\u012bjum\u0101 bija \u2013\u00a0 es k\u0101d\u0101 m\u0113r\u0101 biju iem\u0101c\u012bta b\u016bt \u013coti pa\u0161pietiekama un b\u016bt \u013coti stipra. Mana mamma ir stipra, jo ir viena r\u016bp\u0113jusies par saviem b\u0113rniem \u2013 mani un br\u0101li.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Es redz\u0113ju to modeli, ka sieviete var visu. Vi\u0146a dara visu un vi\u0146a var visu.\u00a0 Man lik\u0101s, ka tas ir tas modelis, k\u0101 visp\u0101r j\u0101b\u016bt. Mans raksturs bija t\u0101ds, ka es tagad uzloc\u012b\u0161u piedurknes, tu paej mal\u0101 un es visu nok\u0101rto\u0161u. Paties\u012bb\u0101 Gatis man \u013coti m\u0101c\u012bja sievi\u0161\u0137\u012bbu. Man vi\u0146a bija j\u0101m\u0101c\u0101s priek\u0161 sevis t\u0101d\u0101 \u013coti s\u0101p\u012bg\u0101 veid\u0101, es pat no diezgan labas karjeras aizg\u0101ju. (L\u012bga R\u016bti\u0146a)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Es sapratu, ka sav\u0101d\u0101k tas nestr\u0101d\u0101s un tur nekas nesan\u0101ks. Es nem\u0101c\u0113ju atdot to atbild\u012bbu v\u012brietim, kas vi\u0146am pieder un pien\u0101kas.<\/p>\n<h3>Vai to var iem\u0101c\u012bties?<\/h3>\n<p>J\u0101, bet \u013coti j\u0101str\u0101d\u0101 pie t\u0101.<\/p>\n<h3>Past\u0101sti vair\u0101k, ko noz\u012bm\u0113 \u2013 aizg\u0101ji no karjeras t\u0101p\u0113c, ka v\u012brs m\u0101c\u012bja Tev sievi\u0161\u0137\u012bbu\u2026<\/h3>\n<p>K\u0101 jau Gatis piemin\u0113ja, kad m\u0113s satik\u0101mies, vi\u0146\u0161 veidoja savu uz\u0146\u0113mumu, bet visi s\u0101kumi ir mazi. Es \u012bsi p\u0113c m\u016bsu satik\u0161an\u0101s dab\u016bju \u013coti labu darba pied\u0101v\u0101jumu starptautisk\u0101 komp\u0101nij\u0101 \u2013 ar visiem bonusiem, labu algu. Pienesums \u0123imenei no manas puses bija stipri liel\u0101ks un m m\u016bsu gad\u012bjum\u0101 tas rad\u012bja kaut k\u0101dus nevajadz\u012bgus konfliktus. Gatis jut\u0101s, ka vi\u0146am ir j\u0101konkur\u0113 ar mani, vi\u0146\u0161 taj\u0101 jut\u0101s maz\u0101k v\u012bri\u0161\u0137\u012bgs, ka nevar tik daudz ienest, k\u0101 taj\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b es var\u0113ju. To ar\u012b m\u0101c\u012bj\u0101mies un paties\u012bb\u0101, kop\u0161 m\u0113s esam s\u0101ku\u0161i attiec\u012bbas, m\u0113s visu laiku m\u0101camies. T\u0101s ir t\u0101das lietas, ko m\u0113s saprotam t\u0101 \u2013 \u0161o man \u0123imen\u0113 un nekur skol\u0101 nav iem\u0101c\u012bju\u0161i, bet vajag to apg\u016bt. Un tad es eju un mekl\u0113ju, kur m\u0113s to varam apg\u016bt. Tie\u0161i t\u0101pat mani p\u0101rsteidza, ka ar\u012b Gatis bija gatavs visu laiku m\u0101c\u012bties.\u00a0 Nu jau t\u0101 ir m\u016bsu dz\u012bves neat\u0146emama sast\u0101vda\u013ca \u2013 m\u0101c\u012bties un pilnveidoties. Un j\u0101, m\u0113s \u013coti daudz lietas m\u0101c\u012bj\u0101mies ar\u012b par laul\u012bbu un attiec\u012bb\u0101m, par finans\u0113m, par b\u0113rnu audzin\u0101\u0161anu. Visas dz\u012bves jomas, kuras paties\u012bb\u0101 vajadz\u0113tu m\u0101c\u012bt skol\u0101, m\u0113s m\u0101c\u012bj\u0101mies p\u0113c tam kaut kur, kur var\u0113j\u0101m \u0161o inform\u0101ciju atrast.<\/p>\n<h3>M\u016bsdien\u0101s stereotips par pak\u013cau\u0161anos v\u012brietim ir t\u0101ds, ka sievietei\u00a0 j\u0101piedz\u012bvo bez maz vai manipul\u0101cija vai k\u0101da verb\u0101la, fiziska piespie\u0161ana no v\u012bra puses, bet L\u012bga st\u0101sta, ka izv\u0113l\u0113j\u0101s to saredz\u0113t un m\u0101c\u012bties pati\u2026<\/h3>\n<p>Gatis: Pirmk\u0101rt, vi\u0146ai pa\u0161ai bija t\u0101 v\u0113lme main\u012bties, jo bija skaidrs, ka vecais ce\u013c\u0161 neaizveda tur, kur grib\u0113tos. L\u012bga bija s\u0101kusi m\u0101c\u012bties, savuk\u0101rt, es sapratu, ka man k\u0101 v\u012brietim ir j\u0101sp\u0113j par\u016bp\u0113ties par to, lai ledusskapis ir pilns, lai mums ir kur dz\u012bvot un lai mums ir for\u0161i pavad\u012bts br\u012bvais laiks.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Paties\u012bb\u0101, tr\u012bs pamata lietas, kas v\u012brietim ir j\u0101izdara, ir \u2013 par\u016bp\u0113ties par \u0123imeni, par jumtu virs galvas un par izklaidi un atp\u016btu. Kaut k\u0101 gadu gait\u0101 mums tas veiksm\u012bgi ir att\u012bst\u012bjies. Skaidrs, ka s\u0101kum\u0101 mums bija kaut k\u0101di klupieni un str\u012bdi un nesapra\u0161an\u0101s \u2013 sauksim lietas \u012bstajos v\u0101rdos.\u00a0 Skaidrs, ka ne jau pirmaj\u0101 dien\u0101, kad L\u012bga aizg\u0101ja no labi apmaks\u0101ta darba, mums bija pilns konts ar naudu un m\u0113s var\u0113j\u0101m dz\u012bvot, k\u0101 m\u0113s gribam. (Gatis R\u016bti\u0146\u0161)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>L\u012bga:<\/strong>\u00a0Pirmk\u0101rt, s\u0101kums bija t\u0101ds, ka Gatis m\u0113\u0123ina uzs\u0101kt uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113jdarb\u012bbu, kura ir pa\u0161os s\u0101kumos un nav lieli ien\u0101kumi. Es esmu ar s\u0101p\u012bgu dz\u012bves pieredzi, kur atkal es nesaprotu, ko man dar\u012bt. Es zinu, ka es negribu v\u0113lreiz t\u0101pat, bet nesaprotu, k\u0101 dar\u012bt sav\u0101d\u0101k. Turkl\u0101t, mums abiem bija \u013coti daudz da\u017e\u0101da veida par\u0101du \u2013 kred\u012bti un viskautkas. Mums bija tik slikti, cik vien slikti var\u0113ja b\u016bt!\u00a0 Tas br\u012b\u017eiem bija pat ne\u017e\u0113l\u012bgs darbs, vienam otru pavilkt un teikt,\u00a0<em>davai,<\/em>\u00a0izturam! Mekl\u0113jam v\u0113l ce\u013cu, k\u0101 ko izdar\u012bt lab\u0101k. Paties\u012bb\u0101 \u0161obr\u012bd j\u016bs m\u016bs satiekat m\u016bsu attiec\u012bbu skaist\u0101kaj\u0101 laik\u0101, kad ar attieksmi un darbu esam sak\u0101rtoju\u0161i daudz jomu sav\u0101 dz\u012bv\u0113.<\/p>\n<h3>Ja k\u0101ds p\u0101ris \u0161obr\u012bd sevi saskata l\u012bdz\u012bg\u0101 posm\u0101, k\u0101d\u0101 j\u016bs bij\u0101t, uz ko tam atsperties, lai spertu n\u0101kamo soli \u0101r\u0101 no kr\u012bzes?<\/h3>\n<p>Ir t\u0101ds teiciens \u2013 cilv\u0113kam ir divas dz\u012bves. T\u0101 otr\u0101 s\u0101ksies tad, kad tu saprat\u012bsi, ka tu negribi vairs pirmo dz\u012bvi. M\u0113s bij\u0101m tie\u0161\u0101m zem\u0101kaj\u0101 punkt\u0101, jo mums bija desmitiem t\u016bksto\u0161u eiro par\u0101di.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Mums bija divi mazi b\u0113rni un desmitiem t\u016bksto\u0161u par\u0101di! Sol\u012bti pa sol\u012btim m\u0113s pie\u0146\u0113m\u0101m, ka \u2013 viss, veco dz\u012bvi vairs negribam! Tas notika sol\u012bti pa sol\u012btim un tas tie\u0161\u0101m nebija viegli, bet bija v\u0113rts iziet cauri, lai non\u0101ktu \u0161obr\u012bd \u0161eit un tagad! (Gatis R\u016bti\u0146\u0161)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3>J\u016bsu piemin\u0113t\u0101s par\u0101dsaist\u012bbas bija j\u016bsu kop\u012bgie par\u0101di vai k\u0101dam no jums\u00a0 konkr\u0113ti?<\/h3>\n<p>Tie bija kop\u012bgi par\u0101di. K\u0101 m\u0113dz teikt \u2013 m\u0113s abi labi satik\u0101mies! Gatim k\u0101 topo\u0161am uz\u0146\u0113m\u0113jam bija vair\u0101k, tie bija gan pat\u0113ri\u0146a kred\u012bti, studiju kred\u012bti, studentu kred\u012bti,\u00a0<em>overdrafts<\/em>, hipotek\u0101rie kred\u012bti, par\u0101di vec\u0101kiem, par\u0101di par veco dz\u012bvokli, kur\u0101 jau gadiem ilgi nedz\u012bvoja.<\/p>\n<p><strong>L\u012bga:<\/strong>\u00a0\u013boti ilgi negrib\u0113j\u0101m skait\u012bt, cik tas ir, saliekot kop\u0101. \u013boti ilgi.<\/p>\n<h3>Pat nezin\u0101j\u0101t summu?<\/h3>\n<p>Pat negrib\u0113j\u0101m zin\u0101t. Un tad vien\u0101s m\u0101c\u012bb\u0101s mums lika to izdar\u012bt, un pat tad negrib\u0113j\u0101m, bet tom\u0113r izdar\u012bj\u0101m un saskait\u012bj\u0101m. Tad bija izmisums. Man lik\u0101s \u2013 viss! M\u0113s nomirsim ar to summu un atst\u0101sim m\u016bsu b\u0113rniem par\u0101dus. Un tikai tad saprat\u0101m, n\u0113, dar\u0101m visu iesp\u0113jamo, lai t\u0101 neb\u016btu. Un \u0161odien varam teikt, ka m\u0113s piecarpus gadu laik\u0101 atdev\u0101m simts divdesmit t\u016bksto\u0161u eiro par\u0101du! Mums m\u0101c\u012bb\u0101s iedeva konkr\u0113tu instrukcija, k\u0101 to var izdar\u012bt. M\u0113s to \u013coti cent\u0101mies iev\u0113rot. Protams, nebij\u0101m izcilnieki, un m\u0113s k\u0101p\u0101m, krit\u0101m, c\u0113l\u0101mies, atkal g\u0101j\u0101m, bet tas ir izdar\u0101ms. Man pat \u0161obr\u012bd to summu izrun\u0101jot, t\u0101 liekas \u201cabnorm\u0101la\u201d. Es toreiz nedom\u0101ju, ka tas atrisin\u0101sies m\u016bsu dz\u012bves laik\u0101, bet, paldies Dievam, tas notika. To ar\u012b m\u0101c\u0101m saviem b\u0113rniem tagad, ka, ja grib, tad var!<\/p>\n<h3>Kas ir j\u0101dara, kad to \u201cbubuli\u201d sastop un ir uzrakst\u012bts lielais cipars? Ar ko s\u0101kt, lai non\u0101ktu taj\u0101 punkt\u0101, kur\u0101 \u0161obr\u012bd esat j\u016bs?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Gatis:<\/strong>\u00a0Manupr\u0101t, viena vien\u012bga svar\u012bga lieta. T\u0101 saist\u0101s ar\u012b ar vis\u0101m p\u0101r\u0113j\u0101m ar laul\u012bbu saist\u012bt\u0101m dz\u012bves jom\u0101m. Ir\u00a0 j\u0101b\u016bt uz viena vi\u013c\u0146a, kad viss, m\u0113s gribam ar \u0161ito bubuli tikt gal\u0101. Nav svar\u012bgi, vai tas ir tikt gal\u0101 ar par\u0101diem, vai izaudzin\u0101t veiksm\u012bgus b\u0113rnus, bet, lai viss notiek uz viena vi\u013c\u0146a, proti, lai tas ir abiem svar\u012bgi un lai to grib abi izdar\u012bt.\u00a0 Viens vilnis ir m\u016bsu pan\u0101kumu atsl\u0113ga.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Vienpr\u0101t\u012bba ir milz\u012bgi svar\u012bga. Nav jau t\u0101, ka mums domas neat\u0161\u0137iras. At\u0161\u0137iras un pat bie\u017ei, bet svar\u012bgi ir m\u0101c\u0113t atrast kompromisu. Esmu sapratusi, ka tas, kas laul\u012bb\u0101 str\u0101d\u0101, ir \u2013 sp\u0113ja kaut k\u0101d\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b piek\u0101pties, b\u016bt elast\u012bgam un b\u016bt ar humoru. Man liekas, t\u0101s ir lietas, bez kur\u0101m nevar b\u016bt laim\u012bga laul\u012bba. (L\u012bga R\u016bti\u0146a)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3>Un tad var m\u0113\u0123in\u0101t nodz\u012bvot ar\u012b \u010detrdesmit, piecdesmit\u00a0 un vair\u0101k gadus.<\/h3>\n<p><strong>Gatis:\u00a0<\/strong>Piln\u012bgi noteikti!<\/p>\n<p><strong>L\u012bga:<\/strong>\u00a0Ir v\u0113l viena svar\u012bga lietu, ko mums noteikti vajag pateikt un t\u0101 ir par randi\u0146iem. M\u0113s to dar\u0101m un regul\u0101ri.<\/p>\n<h3>Ar\u012b ar tr\u012bs b\u0113rniem to var izdar\u012bt?<\/h3>\n<p><strong>L\u012bga:<\/strong>\u00a0J\u0101, ar\u012b tad, kad bija beb\u012b\u0161i. M\u0113s pa\u0146\u0113m\u0101m maz\u0101ko l\u012bdz. Un, k\u0101 es m\u0113dzu teikt- Dievs \u013coti sv\u0113t\u012b randi\u0146us. Vi\u0146\u0161 sak\u0101rto, ka viss nok\u0101rtojas un tas randi\u0146\u0161 ir for\u0161s. Tikai vajag ap\u0146\u0113m\u012bbu. Un oblig\u0101ti vajag ierakst\u012bt kalend\u0101r\u0101. Mums ir t\u0101 \u2013 randi\u0146\u0161 beidzas, m\u0113s atveram kalend\u0101ru un skat\u0101mies, kad ir n\u0101ko\u0161ais?\u00a0 Citi cilv\u0113ki nedr\u012bkst neapmekl\u0113t darb\u0101 sapulci, bet citreiz cilv\u0113ki savu priv\u0101to dz\u012bvi t\u0101 pab\u012bda pa labi, pa kreisi. \u0100, man randi\u0146\u0161, nu es sarun\u0101\u0161u ar v\u012bru cit\u0101 reiz\u0113. N\u0113! T\u0101 k\u0101 sarkanais datums kalend\u0101r\u0101, tie\u0161i t\u0101pat ir randi\u0146\u0161.<\/p>\n<h3>Paldies, ka j\u016bs to sak\u0101t un atz\u012bm\u0113jat! Turpiniet to dar\u012bt un r\u0101d\u012bt labo piem\u0113ru! 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