{"id":3311,"date":"2021-02-06T18:57:02","date_gmt":"2021-02-06T16:57:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/?p=3311"},"modified":"2021-02-17T12:40:14","modified_gmt":"2021-02-17T10:40:14","slug":"neklusti-slinka-sava-lauliba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/neklusti-slinka-sava-lauliba\/","title":{"rendered":"Nek\u013c\u016bsti slinka sav\u0101 laul\u012bb\u0101"},"content":{"rendered":"
Kas notiek, kad s\u0101kam otru uztvert k\u0101 pa\u0161saprotamu?<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>
2 min las\u012b\u0161anai<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div>
Viktorija Slavinska-Kostigova<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>
Vai ir bijis t\u0101, ka mums, siev\u0101m, agr\u0101k nebija nek\u0101du gr\u016bt\u012bbu p\u0101rtraukt ies\u0101kto un steigties sagaid\u012bt v\u012bru, kad tas p\u0101rn\u0101ca m\u0101j\u0101s? Burtiski iepauz\u0113j\u0101m visu, sagaid\u012bj\u0101m, sam\u012b\u013coj\u0101m, iedev\u0101m bu\u010du. Vai k\u0101dai no mums \u0161is ieradums ir main\u012bjies uz vienk\u0101r\u0161i pakliegtu: \u201cTu m\u0101j\u0101s? \u010cau!\u201d Zinu, ka ir sievas (un vi\u0146as iedvesmo!), kas zinot, ka dr\u012bz v\u012brs b\u016bs m\u0101j\u0101s, m\u0113dz uzlikt vieglu grimu, p\u0101r\u0123\u0113rbties, ja nu gad\u012bjum\u0101 diena paskr\u0113jusi m\u0101jas dr\u0113b\u0113s un sa\u0137emm\u0113t matus. Zinu, ka ir sievas, kas m\u0113dz tagad atraukt \u2013 ak, esmu gal\u012bgi palaidusies, es \u0161it\u0101 vair\u0101k nedaru. Ar\u012b es pati \u0161iem posmiem esmu g\u0101jusi cauri.<\/p>\n
Otraj\u0101 f\u0101z\u0113, kur san\u0101cis ir \u201cpalaisties un palikt nolaid\u012bg\u0101kai\u201d par attaisnojumu esmu devusi \u2013 gr\u016btniec\u012bbu, b\u0113rna piedzim\u0161anu, negul\u0113t\u0101s naktis un miegain\u0101s dienas. Tom\u0113r vien\u0101 br\u012bd\u012b aptv\u0113ru, ka tie\u0161i t\u0101pat k\u0101 nav labi palikt slinkam ieradum\u0101 pa\u0113st, atrasties svaig\u0101 gais\u0101, nodarboties ar savu hobiju, ar\u012b \u0161\u012b attiec\u012bb\u0101m b\u016btisk\u0101 da\u013ca nav mazsvar\u012bga.<\/p>\n
Neielai\u017eam slinko attieksmi pret savu laul\u0101to, pat ja esam viens pie otra \u013coti pieradu\u0161i, pat ja aiz muguras ir 5, 10 vai 20 laul\u012bbas gadi. Paties\u012bb\u0101 caur slinkumu ne maiz\u012bte pati uzcepsies, ne darbs pats dar\u012bs sevi, ne ar\u012b attiec\u012bbas plauks vai b\u016bs laim\u012bgas. Neb\u016bsim slinkas pret sevi, pret to, k\u0101 \u0123\u0113rbjamies, izskat\u0101mies un pret to, k\u0101 izturamies pret laul\u0101to. Neatmet\u012bsim labos ieradumus no laika, kad \u012bpa\u0161i piedom\u0101j\u0101m, k\u0101 run\u0101t, k\u0101 paust m\u012blest\u012bbu vai r\u016bpes \u0123imen\u0113. Br\u012bd\u012b, kad kaut ko s\u0101kam uztvert par pa\u0161saprotamu, m\u0113s to \u0101tri varam atst\u0101t nov\u0101rt\u0101 un burtiski s\u0101kt slinkot (to vair\u0101k nedar\u012bt).<\/p>\n
Lai atgrieztos pie s\u0101kotn\u0113ji v\u0113rt\u012bgajiem ieradumiem, kas otram lika justies \u012bpa\u0161i un nov\u0113rt\u0113tam, ir vienk\u0101r\u0161i j\u0101s\u0101k atkal dar\u012bt. M\u0113s katra zin\u0101m savu laul\u012bbu, dienas ritmu un to, kas v\u012bram liktu justies labi, gaid\u012btam un nov\u0113rt\u0113tam. M\u0113s vislab\u0101k zin\u0101m savus apst\u0101k\u013cus un iesp\u0113jas. Nolikt mal\u0101 \u201cvisu ies\u0101kto un visas savas r\u016bpes\u201d, lai velt\u012btu uzman\u012bbu v\u012bram, lai uztais\u012btu vi\u0146a m\u012b\u013c\u0101ko dz\u0113rienu, na\u0161\u0137i vai ko citu \u2013 t\u0101 ir izv\u0113le un l\u0113mums ats\u0101kt to dar\u012bt. Nemekl\u0113sim attaisnojumus, bet pateiksim sev \u2013 \u201cpietiek slinkot!\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>