{"id":3181,"date":"2021-01-22T22:56:33","date_gmt":"2021-01-22T20:56:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/?p=3181"},"modified":"2021-01-22T23:39:16","modified_gmt":"2021-01-22T21:39:16","slug":"kaisle-vai-sasmakusi-istaba","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/musulauliba.lv\/kaisle-vai-sasmakusi-istaba\/","title":{"rendered":"Kaisle vai sasmakusi istaba?"},"content":{"rendered":"
Laul\u012bb\u0101 nepiecie\u0161ami br\u012b\u017ei, kuros esam uz \u201cvientu\u013cas salas\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>
3 min las\u012b\u0161anai<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div>
Rihards & Viktorija Kostigovi<\/p>\n<\/div><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>
Pat, ja j\u016bs neaudzin\u0101t b\u0113rnus, laul\u012bba piedz\u012bvo da\u017e\u0101das sezonas. Starp t\u0101m, kur\u0101s gribas vienam ar otru visu l\u012bdzdal\u012bt, b\u016bt otra tuvum\u0101 un pl\u0101not kop\u012bgo laiku, iezogas ar\u012b saspringti un izaicino\u0161i br\u012b\u017ei. K\u0101dreiz tas var b\u016bt saist\u012bts ar vesel\u012bbu, \u0101r\u0113jiem apst\u0101k\u013ciem, pag\u0101tnes bag\u0101\u017eu vai ar\u012b, piem\u0113ram, sava rakstura iez\u012bmju \u201cadatu izl\u012b\u0161anu uz \u0101ru\u201d. Tas viss skar un ietekm\u0113 pa\u0161u, otru un laul\u012bbu kopum\u0101.<\/p>\n
Tie ir nepiecie\u0161ami, jo tie b\u016bs k\u0101 svaigs gaiss sasmaku\u0161\u0101 istab\u0101. Tik vienk\u0101r\u0161s un reiz\u0113 tik sp\u0113c\u012bgs ir \u0161is padoms. Lai ar\u012b pa\u0161i par to esam daudz run\u0101ju\u0161i, esam ar\u012b piedz\u012bvoju\u0161i, k\u0101 ikdiena ap\u0113d \u201cpriorit\u0101\u0161u topu\u201d, un tad esam attapu\u0161ies n\u012bgri, noguru\u0161i un piln\u012bgi bez aizraut\u012bbas. Tad esam aps\u0113du\u0161ies, izrun\u0101ju\u0161ies un ar steigu mekl\u0113ju\u0161i \u201csvaigo gaisu\u201d \u2013 br\u012bdi prom no visiem, lai atjaunotu m\u016bsu priorit\u0101\u0161u topu. Kad tas ir sak\u0101rtots, ir viegl\u0101k nepalaist gar\u0101m b\u016btisko.<\/p>\n
Katr\u0101 laul\u012bb\u0101 ir ak\u016bti nepiecie\u0161ami br\u012b\u017ei, kad p\u0101ris dodas uz \u201cvientu\u013cu salu\u201d, kur ir tikai viens otram un kur savienojas emocion\u0101li un, protams, ar\u012b fiziski. Kad attiec\u012bb\u0101s iest\u0101jas ilgsto\u0161s nogurums un n\u012bgrums, tad abu starp\u0101 noplok ar\u012b rado\u0161ais un spont\u0101nais. Savuk\u0101rt par laul\u012bbas vides augl\u012bgumu esat atbild\u012bgi tikai j\u016bs pa\u0161i.<\/p>\n
Br\u012b\u017eos, kurus j\u016bs pavad\u012bsiet kop\u0101 divat\u0101 k\u0101 laul\u0101tie, b\u016bs daudzas sarunas, jaut\u0101jumi un atbildes, seksu\u0101l\u0101 tuv\u012bba, kop\u012bga kafija, pastaiga, tuv\u0101k\u0101s n\u0101kotnes pl\u0101no\u0161ana un varb\u016bt pat kvalitat\u012bva anal\u012bze sezonai, kurai ejat cauri. P\u0113c \u0161\u0101das aktivit\u0101\u0161u bu\u0137etes varam teju garant\u0113t, ka n\u0101kam\u0101s dienas b\u016bs piepild\u012btas ar vienot\u012bbu, sapratni un galvenais \u2013 kop\u012bgu degsmi vienam uz otru.<\/p>\n
Nereti esam dzird\u0113ju\u0161i p\u0101rus st\u0101st\u0101m, ka kop\u0161 k\u0101z\u0101m visu un visur turas divat\u0101, visu dara kop\u0101, jo ir ta\u010du apprec\u0113ju\u0161ies! Tas var b\u016bt \u013coti p\u0101rprasts laul\u012bbas koncepts. Ja netiek visp\u0101r realiz\u0113ti savi talanti un nav komunik\u0101cijas ar\u012b ar citiem cilv\u0113kiem, gaiss laul\u012bbas telp\u0101 var \u0101tri sasmakt un k\u013c\u016bt nom\u0101co\u0161s abiem.<\/p>\n
Atrodiet sev hobiju, un mudiniet laul\u0101to atrast savu! Tas patie\u0161\u0101m ir svar\u012bgi, jo mums katram ir kaut kas t\u0101ds, kas dr\u012bkst b\u016bt \u201ctikai mans\u201d \u2013 gr\u0101matas, m\u0101ksla, sports, kokapstr\u0101de, mak\u0161\u0137er\u0113\u0161ana, kulin\u0101rijas kursi, motosports vai kas cits.<\/p>\n
Sievas \u2013 dodiet savam v\u012bram iesp\u0113ju pavad\u012bt laiku ar draugiem, dar\u012bt v\u012bru lietas, un p\u0113c tam vi\u0146u nepratiniet ar jaut\u0101jumiem \u201cKur biji? Ko dar\u012bji?\u201d Tik, cik vi\u0146\u0161 jut\u012bs, izst\u0101st\u012bs jums pats. Sagaidiet m\u0101j\u0101s ar smaidu, apsk\u0101vienu, labu v\u0101rdu un iecien\u012bt\u0101ko \u0113dienu, un ziniet \u2013 ja laul\u012bb\u0101 valda uzticam\u012bba un br\u012bv\u012bba, tad v\u012brs labpr\u0101t dal\u0101s ar sievu savos piedz\u012bvojumos, ja vien vi\u0146as prot klaus\u012bties.<\/p>\n
V\u012bri \u2013 pavaic\u0101jiet savai sievai, p\u0113c k\u0101 vi\u0146a ilgojas. Varb\u016bt t\u0101 ir ned\u0113\u013cas nogale ar draudzen\u0113m, kad vi\u0146as var kop\u0101 sievi\u0161\u0137\u012bgi \u010dalot, baudot gard\u0113\u017eu k\u016bci\u0146as, un v\u0113l\u0101k visu uz\u0146emto ener\u0123iju, kas nav uzkr\u0101jusies skropst\u0101s, matos un kr\u016bt\u012bs, izlietot, piem\u0113ram, n\u016bjojot. Sieva atgriez\u012bsies pie jums atspirgusi, piepild\u012bta ar pozit\u012bviem iespaidiem un galvenais \u2013 saj\u016btu, ka j\u016bs vi\u0146u atbalst\u0101t ar\u012b \u0161\u0101d\u0101 atp\u016bt\u0101.<\/p>\n
\u2026un m\u012blest\u012bb\u0101 iedro\u0161iniet to dar\u012bt ar\u012b savu laul\u0101to. Neapvainojieties, ja laul\u0101tais jums kaut vai caur joku ierosina aiziet uz sporta z\u0101li, vai v\u0113l lab\u0101k \u2013 kop\u0101 ar vi\u0146u uz stadionu. Dariet visu iesp\u0113jamo, lai b\u016btu pievilc\u012bgi viens otram. Tas ietver sev\u012b r\u016bp\u0113\u0161anos par savu \u0137ermeni, matiem, \u0101du, ap\u0123\u0113rbu, aksesu\u0101riem. Nevelciet savas lab\u0101k\u0101s dr\u0113bes tikai, dodoties uz savies\u012bgu pas\u0101kumu, darbu vai pils\u0113tu, bet palutiniet viens otru ar\u012b ikdien\u0101. Veltiet komplimentus un atzin\u012bbu, k\u0101 ar\u012b, kad jums ir draudz\u012bgi atkl\u0101t\u012bbas br\u012b\u017ei, pajaut\u0101jiet savam laul\u0101tajam, vai vi\u0146am\/vi\u0146ai viss pat\u012bk un ko grib\u0113tu uzlabot.<\/p>\n
Esat dzird\u0113ju\u0161i, ka k\u0101dreiz laul\u0101tie m\u0113dz viens otram velt\u012bt jauku apz\u012bm\u0113jumu \u2013 \u201cTu man esi k\u0101 d\u0101vana?\u201d N\u0101cis no sirds, tas ir zelta v\u0113rts kompliments un reiz\u0113 c\u0113ls m\u0113r\u0137is, uz ko tiekties. Seno laiku \u0137\u0113ni\u0146\u0161 Salamans B\u012bbel\u0113 raksta rindas, kas ir reiz\u0113 padoms v\u012briem un etalons siev\u0101m: \u201cKam pie\u0161\u0137irta augsti tikum\u012bga sieva, tas lai apzin\u0101s, ka vi\u0146a ir cilden\u0101ka nek\u0101 visd\u0101rg\u0101k\u0101 p\u0113rle. (\u2026) Sp\u0113ks un skaistums ir vi\u0146as iet\u0113rps; vi\u0146a pati smaid\u012bdama bez r\u016bp\u0113m raug\u0101s austo\u0161ai dienai pret\u012b. Vi\u0146a ver va\u013c\u0101 savu muti ar gudr\u012bbu, un m\u012bl\u012bga pam\u0101c\u012bba ir uz vi\u0146as m\u0113les. Vi\u0146a nov\u0113ro, k\u0101 kl\u0101jas vi\u0146as namam, un ne\u0113d savu maizi slinkum\u0101.\u201d<\/p>\n
Iesak\u0101m atrast \u0161o Salamana pam\u0101c\u012bb\u0101s 31. noda\u013c\u0101 doto raksturojumu. To lasot, atcerieties, ka kaisle, dzirksts un aizraut\u012bba attiec\u012bb\u0101s past\u0101v\u0113s, kam\u0113r katrs patur\u0113sim pr\u0101t\u0101, ka otrs mums ir nenov\u0113rt\u0113jama d\u0101vana, savuk\u0101rt mums pa\u0161iem j\u0101b\u016bt t\u0101 v\u0113rtiem, lai m\u016bs var\u0113tu saukt par d\u0101vanu.<\/p>\n<\/div>